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61.3 (61 to 9) re: relationship

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I just met this girl, about a week ago, and I like her a lot. She makes me laugh and is quite smart, not to mention good looking. She recently broke up with her boyfriend of 10 months and she doesn't seem 100% ready to move on yet. I'm afraid I might get thrown into the friend zone but i'm not sure what to do without seeming inconsiderate towards her emotional state.

i asked the i ching "What can i do to get her to like me romantically?"
the oracle was 61 changing to 9 through line 3.

What should i make of this?
 

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"i asked the i ching "What can i do to get her to like me romantically?"
the oracle was 61 changing to 9 through line 3."

Hex 61.3 says that you really fancy this girl and in doing so will cause your emotions to go haywire, oneday you will feel happy then the next you will feel sad, and so it will go back and forth. Its called being in love but try to be a little more detached.

Hex 9 this suggests that you be friendly with her but whatever you do don't force the pace with her, make your approach slow and gentle, you are in a very weak position at the moment because you are at the very beginning of a relationship and your attitude could either make or break the affair. All you can do for the present is nibble around the edges, be patient, use self restraint, you have to win her trust and confidence. Give this relationship some time to get off the ground but don't worry follow the advice given and you should well succeed.
 

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I just met this girl, about a week ago, and I like her a lot. She makes me laugh and is quite smart, not to mention good looking. She recently broke up with her boyfriend of 10 months and she doesn't seem 100% ready to move on yet. I'm afraid I might get thrown into the friend zone but i'm not sure what to do without seeming inconsiderate towards her emotional state.
i asked the i ching "What can i do to get her to like me romantically?"
the oracle was 61 changing to 9 through line 3.
What should i make of this?

I think I would make an effort to "get thrown into the friend zone."
That, or be Rebound Guy. Don't "get her" to do anything.
Just be there for her, and let her move at her own pace.
 

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For me, in this case, 61.3 is a kind of warning, I quote Wilhelm/Baynes which seems to me very clear:

Here the source of a man's strength lies not in himself but in his relation to
other people. No matter how close to them he may be, if his center of gravity
depends on them, he is inevitably tossed to and fro between joy and sorrow.

So the message is: try to depend less on the other for your happiness; be more detached, like willowfox said.

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For me, in this case, 61.3 is a kind of warning, I quote Wilhelm/Baynes which seems to me very clear:

Here the source of a man's strength lies not in himself but in his relation to
other people. No matter how close to them he may be, if his center of gravity
depends on them, he is inevitably tossed to and fro between joy and sorrow.

So the message is: try to depend less on the other for your happiness; be more detached, like willowfox said.


Yes, I completely agree.

I had this come up a few times and it always suggested a form of objectivity was required - kinda like you're souped up with chemicals and you need to detach in order to see things clearly. That is not easy, needless to say.

There may also be a suggestion that this is a recurrent theme in your life. Do you live through others in vacarious ways or have your built you own "centre of gravity" from which you can attract a compatible partner as a wholly natural process?

61 seems to be about going deep down into the core of what makes us tick and therefore what informs much of our unconscious behaviour. I would really take it easy here and see if you can become a little more detached from the need. Good luck.

Topal
 

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Perhaps 61.3 is also refering to the girl still being caught up in the highs and lows of this other relationship. 9 says you can influence the situation only in small ways. At this time perhaps being her friend may actually be the way to her heart.
 

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