61.5 -> 41 - help to interprete, a difficult relationship

[LoveandPeace]

Good day/evening dear people

I would ask for your help in interpreting the hexagrams I received by asking the I ching question about a rather emotionally intense relationship that I have been involved in for a year. The question was, “What is the future of this relationship”? And the answer I got was 61.5-> 41.

As for this relationship, the other side (he) occasionally confuses me. At times he indulge him self and it is wonderful and I feel connected like never before with anyone, and then there are periods in which he completely distances itself and we don’t communicate for weeks. We do not discuss this period as he begins to avoid the subject and to build a wall around him.
Now we are again in that (for me) confusing phase of a relationship that is exhausting me more than ever before because I am in a big life change right now. And because of that, I asked a question about the future of the relationship and meaning of it.

If needed more information please be free to ask.

Thanks in advance to anyone who helps me interpret the results
Love and peace

 

[rosada]

61.5 - 41. Inner Truth - Decrease
The intensity decreases? Not good.
Or on a positive note, perhaps this is saying if you feel he truly cares about you but just likes to take off from time to time, than you will come to Decrease your need for him to be more available. I guess the question is what does he say about your friendship when he's wanting to be close?
Mainly I think these hexagrams are saying you should assume this is how he is, and not be tolerating this behavior because you think he'll change.

 

[marybluesky]

What is the future of this relationship”? And the answer I got was 61.5-> 41
61.5: "Liu: His truthfulness is steadfast. No blame"; "Shaughnessy: There is a return linkedly; there is no trouble."
I'd say when you are together, he Sincerely (61) wants to be with you ; then the connection Decreases(41) and he takes distance. In other words, the same pattern repeats so long as you accept it.