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pembs

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Hi Guys

I think Yi was certainly trying to tell me something last night when I cast the same hexagrams (but back to front) twice!

My questions were in relation to my estranged husband who I still miss but we have not been in communication for the past 6 months as we are both trying to get on with our lives.

My first question was "Does he NEED my help?" and got Hex 62.5 changing to 31. I later asked "What does he NEED from me?" and got Hex 31.5 changing to 62!

I have interpreted this to mean that he will connect with me again but not now but sometime in the future. Funily enough I have received a few hex 19's lately also so perhaps contact is eventually on its way.

Just wanted to get your views?

Best Wishes
Claire
 

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Line 62.5 does indeed suggest that he needs help.


Line 31.5 suggests that he is indecisive, lacks inner strength and resolve and therefore needs you your help in those areas.
 

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Thanks WillowFox.

Not sure what I should do in terms of offering my help as most readings I have received in recent weeks relate to taking no action. I think I explained previously that my marriage with this man fell apart some time ago and we were communicating occasionally again last summer via texts/phone but this came to an abrupt end when I filed for divorce. The ridiculous thing is that I don't want a divorce - I want a reconciliation - but I filed for divorce because I thought it would prompt him to try and save our marriage! Instead it had the adverse effect and we no longer speak.

After receiving your response, I asked "If he needs my help how can I help him?" and received Hex 28 with line 1 changing to 43. Am I supposed to announce my thoughts?

I really think that I have no alternative but to continue with divorce as I don't think he will ever come back unfortunately - too many things have happened. I have asked about the divorce over the past few months and have various responses. These are just some of the most recent which I have received in latter weeks and hope you will be kind enough to comment on?

"How will divorcing him help him?" - Hex 2 with changing lines 1,6 to 27.
"Divorce = ?" - Hex 22.1 to 52
"Will divorce help?" - Hex 21.2,3 to hex 14
"What effect will divorce proceedings have on me?" Hex 33
"Is now the right time to seriously start divorce proceedings?" - Hex 26.1 to 18
"What difference will divorce proceedings make to his attitude toward me - 18.1,3,6 to 19
"I will be resolute and part from the past by divorcing him!" - Hex 10.3 to 1
"What is the point in hanging on?" - Hex 50.5 to 44

I know I am presenting a LOT of questions but I am in such a dilemma and would really appreciate any ideas from yourself and any other forum members in terms of a general 'feel' to the subject of divorce.

Many, many thanks. . .
Claire
 

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"How will divorcing him help him?" - Hex 2 with changing lines 1,6 to 27.

The decision to divorce was made by you in the hope that he would see that there was still a chance before it is too late, that he would come to his senses and line 6 shows that he will no longer be in a power play with you, so now he has to learn to look after himself.

"Divorce = ?" - Hex 22.1 to 52 Yes, punishment must be administered otherwise the problems will only get bigger and more serious.

"Will divorce help?" - Hex 21.2,3 to hex 14 Yes.

"What effect will divorce proceedings have on me?" Hex 33 It will give you the necessary time to gather your strength, find some peace of mind and be able to relax.

"Is now the right time to seriously start divorce proceedings?" - Hex 26.1 to 18 Line 26.1 suggests no, wait a bit longer and Hex 18 speaks of trying to repair the damage done in this marriage. This question seems to come from a way back because all the other answers say that you need to go ahead now and divorce.

"What difference will divorce proceedings make to his attitude toward me - 18.1,3,6 to 19 Perhaps it will finally wake him up to the reality of the situation and for him to realize what he is missing out on.

"I will be resolute and part from the past by divorcing him!" - Hex 10.3 to 1 Positive

"What is the point in hanging on?" - Hex 50.5 to 44 None
 

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Thank you so much for taking the time and trouble to respond to SO many questions - it is very much appreciated - as ever.

You have certainly brought some clarity to my situation althought I'm still confused as to why I still keep getting hex 18 which suggests repairing the damage. It seems like the I Ching is sending me mixed messages!

I think the only thing for me to do is to get divorced!

Best WIshes
Claire



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Claire
 

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