63.1.4.>31 and 64

[beithe]

Hi just me again

I need some assistance with this one. Probably because I know too much about everything involved.

The question asked was this...
"What will be the relationship between myself and my friend by the end of this week?"

For further information there are actually three people involved here but the question that was asked only applied to two of them. The nuclear hexagram (if I did it properly) is 64.

I tend to see 63 and 64 as two people ( almost as though one is getting what they want and the other is not) with 31 being the situation in general. The reason that the question was framed as it was is due to the fact that there is an event toward the end of this week that will more than likely leave this as a two person situation.

I'm sorry if I am confusing anyone but even in a closed community such as Clarity I don't feel comfortable with posting other peoples problems. I suppose that is silly.

I see this as a possible culmination to an on going issue. I also feel that the Yi is saying this is nearly finished but don't light the candles on the cake yet. What I don't really know is who may be lighting them. If it goes for the two that asked the question there will be two with candles and if it goes the other way then it will be one with candles the other one grinning and bearing it. I simply do not feel grounded enough in the Yi to feel confident that I am on the right track

I hope someone can help me with this.

thanks
beithe

I am using Karcher if that helps anyone know where I am coming from.

 

[mercury]

Hi Beithe, here's my two cents...it seems to me that things are coming together positively but still in a very, very fragile state and will be that way for longer than is currently thought -- and that patience and honesty are absolute necessities.

So it sounds to me like it's good, but be prepared for a drawn out, delayed resolution rather than a clear ending. Perhaps that leans toward the "grinning and bearing it" resolution, with some care and mending of feelings being called for to preserve relationships in the long run.

 

[beithe]

Hi mercury and thank you.
I know that when the nuclear hex was 64 it really began to look as though there were two seperate outcomes and I think that is why I applied them to people. So maybe it is not so much two seperate outcomes but there are more than two people involved. So maybe 63 already crossing indicates those who have moved on or have tried to and 64 not yet crossing is the person that is unwillingly to move on? Hex 63 has always seemed more positive to me than 64. And yet I know that everything is a cycle. Everything changes and everything ends and begins again.

I have yet to become proficient enough to quickly produce a matrix for a reading. I feel that I need one for this one.

It took me two hours the other night to accomplish one. My eyes were crossed from changing lines and double checking them.

At least I am determined
beithe

 

[mercury]

Beithe, I would have to defer to your experience and your knowledge of the situation; I'm just getting a handle on the basics here, but I know sometimes I jump to conclusions and get literal about things before thinking again and looking at it more metaphorically.

I would imagine, though, that the simpler approach/analysis, the better?

 

[beithe]

Mercury if anyone can make something simple as clear as mud...it would be me. And as to experience, there are people here that have forgotten more than I will ever know. I almost think my knowledge of the situation colors what I "see" so it is ,maybe, a handicap?

And keeping it simple is the best thing for me right now. I am in basic training too.

But I bury myself in trying to do all these matrixes because I so badly want to know. I keep drowning myself. I like your interpretation and it is really what I was thinking but I cannot seem to say anything in 1000 words or less.

Your insight was a great help.
:bows:

 

[willowfox]

""What will be the relationship between myself and my friend by the end of this week?"

Hex 63.1 you are making progress but don't rush ahead of yourself here, take it step by step, contain yourself.

Hex 63.4 be aware of unseen problems, things may appear to be going well but underneath the surface trouble could be festering. So deal with these problems now.

Hex 31 mutual attraction, a friendly relationship.

 

[mercury]

Hey Beithe! I wouldn't sell myself short on knowing the ins and outs of the situation if I were you, but I often find myself not seeing the forest for the trees in these things, and that's probably what you mean.

A lot of times what I think is the desired "final" result is just another step in the process and not the ending at all.

 

[willowfox]

"The nuclear hexagram (if I did it properly) is 64."

The nuclear hex of hex 31 is hex 44, meeting, contact, coming to meet.

 

[beithe]

nope willowfox I meant the nuclear of the primary hex. That is 64 right????
Or can you or should you do them with all of the hexagrams. I guess I thought it was just the primary hex. In this case 63.

 

[willowfox]

Hi, no, you should only do the second hex, not the first because the first gives you the changing lines that lead onto the second which then gives a nuclear hex, in your question would be hex 44.

Hex 63.1,4 > 31 > 44

 

[beithe]

thank you thank you


once again I have made things as clear as mud. Thanks willowfox.