63.3 and how best to support my son?

[amyjohanna]

Hi,

Can anyone advise me in interpreting this reading. I asked how I can best support my 18 year old son who doesn't go out or mix with people and declines any opportunity to socialise. He left college a year ago to do gaming type things and is due to start college again in Septemeber. I have explored the idea that he may be depressed but he says he isn't, i am at a loss really. We exchange pleasantries each day & have a hug & that is his only human contact, really dont know whats going on with him inside as he doen't open up and seems to get irritated with me when I try & talk about it. My understanding of this reading is that he is struggling with things as well ? but I am not sure how Inteperate how I can support him. Many thanks:bows:

 

[icastes]

63.3 means that the campaign against the barbarians takes time and he needs a good general to help him. If that is done, there is a new beginning, 3, which although precarious and difficult as all beginnings are, is still a good thing. So, ask what it is that he wants, and then advise him on how to get it. It may be that right now he doesn't want contact with others, but he will have a lot of contact with people in school. Perhaps the best is to prepare him for that.