63 and lines

[deekristen]

Hello,
This is my last question about this relationship and everything that has to do with it so dont worry i wont be bothering you...

ok so i asked if i should call him, since this is going nowhere...
The answer was 63.2.3.6 going to 61

I think the lines 3 is saying that he is not worth it? and the 6th line is mostly something like woow easy tiger... I am thinking that i shouldnt call him.

Actually besides asking i-ching, i really dont wanna call him... Why do we have emotions? life would be easier without them... i think... i am not sure...
D.

 

[ginnie]

Let it all go

I know exactly what you're saying. Don't bother with this relationship any more right now, because it has caused you a lot of trouble with your girlfriend and you lost the privacy of being able to keep your thoughts to yourself. The way you feel now won't last long. In a few days you'll feel a lot better. Just let it all go.

 

[ginnie]

Girlfriends

Girlfriends often don't want us to find a boyfriend, you know, because that means she'll lose you for a while, deekristen.

A few years ago, I was thinking of moving to another city. Since this was such an important decision, I decided to talk it over with my best girlfriend. She seemed as if stricken. She said everything to discourage me from moving away. That is because she was only thinking about herself, not about what would be best for me. She was not willing to look at things from my point of view. That's the way most people are.

 

[ginnie]

63.3

As you said, you feel very reluctant to call him anyway. If you tried to call him now, you would be going against yourself, and this would result in great fatigue.

 

[sophie]

63, 2.3.6 >> 61

The Yi is telling you "enough already" - emotions are messing with your head. Even if it's the right thing to do (calling him) - you're in no emotional position to do so. Let it go for a little while, and you will reach the truth of the situation (61), which is not what your friend thinks, but what you heart and mind, reconciled, know.

 

[deekristen]

hank you barbra and Sophie for your support and thoughts, it really made me feel better. Since i cant talk about it with anyone besides my friend and since i am not talking to her either (about this subject), i am about to lose my mind, i am all obsessed. But really i have to let go, i have more important things to do than that.
Thank you very much again...
D.

 

[ginnie]

Sometimes doing some kind of art or even writing in a journal can help a lot. I like to go out and walk by a river. Try to do something else besides thinking about him. You know you're wasting your time right now, thinking about him. Don't stay in this state of mind. Make every effort to reach for a more positive state of mind and more positive thoughts.

 

[deekristen]

I know i am trying that, actually i am feeling way better right now, every once in a while he comes to my mind but than i forget him again...