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My favourite ex boyfriend, an Italian I knew 30 years ago contacted me on Facebook .
I have vivid dreams about him at times but all chaste as I have been chaste for over a decade. He messaged saying he could come to India but I told him I am chaste. However, he still reacts to some of my posts. I recently sent him the section of my memoir which features our relationship so he could give me a go ahead. He did but he also said that he read it in a breath and it aroused so many emotions he could not describe them in his English. He said he wants to go back in time. After that our messages have been more frequent. I told him to visit sometime. He sent me pictures of himself and asked for mine and it’s all very romantic. Perhaps he will come. I had been the one to end the relationship in 1988. long distance relationships are so trying. Now I am hoping he will return. So I asked the Yi what does he want from me and got hexagram 63 lines 4, 5 and 6 moving to 30. Does this mean he wants completion? Please advise. Thank you.
 

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Sounds like he wants a warm, bright fiery completion!
I don't know how well that will go with being chaste!
On the other hand: what's life without a little danger?!
 

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Sounds like he wants a warm, bright fiery completion!
I don't know how well that will go with being chaste!
On the other hand: what's life without a little danger?!
Lol. Yeah. Sounds like him. But he holds back at times like now. Says he's very busy as it is 'high season' at his restaurant in Massa!
 

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Hexagram 63
Line 4: He's watching for the signs
Line 5: for when he can make a move/offering/gesture
Line 6: to ignore caution/precaution and just be reckless/spontaneous (so, yeah, probably sex haha)

Hexagram 30: Maybe again about observing you/the situation

edit: I wonder if Line 5 is also saying it’s simple and straightforward what his intention is.
 
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This cast really does not bode well, look at line 6 which specifically warns against looking back and soaking your head


'Soaking your head. Danger.' (Hilary, wiki)

Look at the change patterns here 12 and 11. Not necessarily in themselves a bad indicator it's just all the action is in the outer trigram. How deep does this go ? Also is it already complete, already over apart from the revisiting in line 6. There couldn't be a worse line could there for looking backwards to the past and drowning ?

I think it is probably better for you to reign in your expectations in order to avoid disappointment.


He said he wants to go back in time.
That's line 6 right there. If you completed a river crossing don't turn around to look backwards. Neither of you can go back in time you can only know one another as you are now.


He may come, I don't know but I wouldn't bank on it. Apart from the reading it does sound like he's being rather flowery with you and I wonder if he can follow through.


The reading as a sentence says 'Completion's Clarity'. This is complete it is not about him seeking completion. If it is already complete there's no use turning back around.

Line 4 is hard work really, I wonder if this is to do with shoring up images of one another. Line 5 says smaller gestures are more sincere than great ones. Look for sincerity rather than believe in grand gestures of him saying he is coming to your country.


30 brings to light what is in the primary hexagram. It uncovers, makes clear, you're able to look at the past. I don't think 30 here is saying there will be completion. The point of Completion is that it is complete and so on the point of change into something else. It doesn't hold back stay as it was and turn around to what it was before.



However I don't think you should let any reading put you off making plans with him, after all I could be wrong and if you want to go forward with this why not. All I'd caution is that you don't get too carried away and also you rethink how sincere he is actually being about coming to India and so on. Being romantic online is a whole other thing to real life.


Oh and as the cast is about what he wants I wonder if he is in some kind of trouble or hard time right now which is why the past seems so attractive to him. Line 6 says his head is soaked, he's not thinking clearly.
 

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I had thought about it after and I would also consider the "small offering" of line 5. Normally that's a good thing in the context of the line but I don't really think these things always shake out that way; I think it could mean he doesn't actually have much to offer here, possibly not enough to make it worth it to you.
 

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This cast really does not bode well, look at line 6 which specifically warns against looking back and soaking your head


'Soaking your head. Danger.' (Hilary, wiki)

Look at the change patterns here 12 and 11. Not necessarily in themselves a bad indicator it's just all the action is in the outer trigram. How deep does this go ? Also is it already complete, already over apart from the revisiting in line 6. There couldn't be a worse line could there for looking backwards to the past and drowning ?

I think it is probably better for you to reign in your expectations in order to avoid disappointment.



That's line 6 right there. If you completed a river crossing don't turn around to look backwards. Neither of you can go back in time you can only know one another as you are now.


He may come, I don't know but I wouldn't bank on it. Apart from the reading it does sound like he's being rather flowery with you and I wonder if he can follow through.


The reading as a sentence says 'Completion's Clarity'. This is complete it is not about him seeking completion. If it is already complete there's no use turning back around.

Line 4 is hard work really, I wonder if this is to do with shoring up images of one another. Line 5 says smaller gestures are more sincere than great ones. Look for sincerity rather than believe in grand gestures of him saying he is coming to your country.


30 brings to light what is in the primary hexagram. It uncovers, makes clear, you're able to look at the past. I don't think 30 here is saying there will be completion. The point of Completion is that it is complete and so on the point of change into something else. It doesn't hold back stay as it was and turn around to what it was before.



However I don't think you should let any reading put you off making plans with him, after all I could be wrong and if you want to go forward with this why not. All I'd caution is that you don't get too carried away and also you rethink how sincere he is actually being about coming to India and so on. Being romantic online is a whole other thing to real life.


Oh and as the cast is about what he wants I wonder if he is in some kind of trouble or hard time right now which is why the past seems so attractive to him. Line 6 says his head is soaked, he's not thinking clearly.
Thank you Trojina. Yes I too was wondering about line 6. But then I thought as some Yi expert has said, that situation had alrwady passed away at line 6 and so goes into its reverse hex 64 which could be a beginning all over again. Anyway I had given up on love all these years. He is a wonderful memory. I'm ok with it not working out. I'm just happy to be cherished for ao many years.
 

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I had thought about it after and I would also consider the "small offering" of line 5. Normally that's a good thing in the context of the line but I don't really think these things always shake out that way; I think it could mean he doesn't actually have much to offer here, possibly not enough to make it worth it to you.
Thank you. Yes it could be.
 

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This cast really does not bode well, look at line 6 which specifically warns against looking back and soaking your head


'Soaking your head. Danger.' (Hilary, wiki)

Look at the change patterns here 12 and 11. Not necessarily in themselves a bad indicator it's just all the action is in the outer trigram. How deep does this go ? Also is it already complete, already over apart from the revisiting in line 6. There couldn't be a worse line could there for looking backwards to the past and drowning ?

I think it is probably better for you to reign in your expectations in order to avoid disappointment.



That's line 6 right there. If you completed a river crossing don't turn around to look backwards. Neither of you can go back in time you can only know one another as you are now.


He may come, I don't know but I wouldn't bank on it. Apart from the reading it does sound like he's being rather flowery with you and I wonder if he can follow through.


The reading as a sentence says 'Completion's Clarity'. This is complete it is not about him seeking completion. If it is already complete there's no use turning back around.

Line 4 is hard work really, I wonder if this is to do with shoring up images of one another. Line 5 says smaller gestures are more sincere than great ones. Look for sincerity rather than believe in grand gestures of him saying he is coming to your country.


30 brings to light what is in the primary hexagram. It uncovers, makes clear, you're able to look at the past. I don't think 30 here is saying there will be completion. The point of Completion is that it is complete and so on the point of change into something else. It doesn't hold back stay as it was and turn around to what it was before.



However I don't think you should let any reading put you off making plans with him, after all I could be wrong and if you want to go forward with this why not. All I'd caution is that you don't get too carried away and also you rethink how sincere he is actually being about coming to India and so on. Being romantic online is a whole other thing to real life.


Oh and as the cast is about what he wants I wonder if he is in some kind of trouble or hard time right now which is why the past seems so attractive to him. Line 6 says his head is soaked, he's not thinking clearly.
Trojina I think he is having a hard time financially working too hard. They lost 5 months last year due to his restaurant being closed at the time. By the way its Da Lui who says line 6 goes into line 1 of the reverse hexagram.
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Trojina I think he is having a hard time financially working too hard. They lost 5 months last year due to his restaurant being closed at the time. By the way its Da Lui who says line 6 goes into line 1 of the reverse hexagram.
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Also this interest in.me is not sudden. He has been my fb friend for years and actually sought me out.
 

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Well keep on feeling the situation out. Don't lose hope because of my interpretation or anyone's. Why not just go on as you have been and see what happens.

No one actually knows what he wants from you but him so I wouldn't like to speak on his behalf as it were. I do think you should have a healthy degree of caution around this for the sake of protecting your own heart. If it turns out you don't need caution then good.
 

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