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There is a certain person that I am interested in romantically and I asked "what is the right thing to do with X? I received 64.3.5 to 44. The approaching hexagram is the most confusing. Please help.
 

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Line 64.3 suggests that the time has come to make your move but you are unable to do it by yourself, so back off and use some people/friends that you know to create a new situation where you can be introduced into X's world, to grab his attention so to speak.

Line 64.5 Just says that if you follow the advice of line 64.3 then you will achieve your goal.

Does this make sense to you and your situation?
 

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Yes it does, thank you Willowfox. But I was wondering if it is worth seeking help for because hexagram 44 doesn't seem very positive. It seems like a situation where what one thinks they want isn't really what they want after all or it is not good for them. That is my biggest worry. Any insight into hexagram 44?
 

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Hex 44 suggests two possibilities, first, you go out with him a few times purely for fun, nothing lasting and secondly, if you have the intention of a long term relationship, then forget it it. Hex 44 is hot, naughty and fun providing you don't overstay.
 

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Well we have had our fun and I was hoping it would get serious but I guess not. Thanks for clarifying willowfox.

I have done another reading on this person asking "should I let X out of my life right now?" since I have a lot of things I'm trying to work through and received 61.1.2.3.4 to 33. This seems like a definite yes. What I'm really looking for is more explanation on the moving lines, especially line 2.
 
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"should I let X out of my life right now?" 61.1.2.3.4 to 33

Line 61.1 suggests that that getting too entangled with X will lead to a deeper dependency upon him and this is not a good idea at all.

Line 61.2 This line suggests a deep attraction to Mr.X that you don't want to really let go of, so you must be very cautious in how you let yourself react to him, you seem to be reacting to him due to an inner dependency.

Line 61.3 says do not depend upon Mr.X to give you love and happiness because you will be happy one day but deeply upset the next.

Line 61.4 Says go your own way and don't look back at Mr.X, that way you will be free and break any dependency upon him.

Hex 33 Back off of him. Go your own way without him in tow.
 

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Ok so it seems I want to keep beating this dead horse but this person has a particular hold on me, as you said willowfox, and I really want to understand this more for my own peace of mind.

I asked how I should tell this person that I can no longer talk to him and got 15.3 to 2.
Then I asked how I can bear losing him and got 40.2.4 to 2.
Then I asked, "for what purpose did I meet X?" since his presence has really disrupted it and I received 46.5.6 to 57.

This should be the last time I ask about this situation for a while. Anymore help would me massively appreciated. I'm really torn up about all this. Thanks.
 
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Oh I just wanted to add that you are so right about this person, willowfox. I am very dependant upon him and there is this incredible attraction physically and emotionally and spiritually with this Mr. X and I find it so hard to let him go even if its the best thing for me in the long run. I guess I feel like my feelings can't be wrong. Also I am constantly feeling high then low, happy and then sad and that is one of the things that bothers X about me. My happiness is too dependent on him and I realize that that is very bad and harmful to the relationship. You couldn't have been anymore right in your interpretation.
 

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I asked how I should tell this person that I can no longer talk to him and got 15.3 to 2.

Bow out quietly and gently, without all the pomp and ceremony, the line says you need to bring this to an end, but of course in a nice way.

Then I asked how I can bear losing him and got 40.2.4 to 2.

You will just have to be strong and stand up and be counted, with willpower you can overcome everything. Read these lines, they again speak of the need to gain your freedom.

Then I asked, "for what purpose did I meet X?" since his presence has really disrupted it and I received 46.5.6 to 57.

Perhaps to learn how to overcome obsessive behaviour.
 

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