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lalafree

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the question is: which will be the probable result of this approach?

The approach regards the option to be sincere (a sort of coming out) about my feelings. I said to him that I wasn't in love anymore, that I want to move on. (I was frustrated because it was an "half way" relationship)
After some time I'm not longer sure about that! I have doubts, I miss him... I'm always looking for him and thinking about him!..hoping that we will soon together! .So i wonder if I should tell him how I feel and which consequences this will bring!

The answer 7.1.3 to me sounds really difficult to interpret!

Any help is appreciated!!
 

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the question is: which will be the probable result of this approach?

The approach regards the option to be sincere (a sort of coming out) about my feelings. I said to him that I wasn't in love anymore, that I want to move on. (I was frustrated because it was an "half way" relationship)
After some time I'm not longer sure about that! I have doubts, I miss him... I'm always looking for him and thinking about him!..hoping that we will soon together! .So i wonder if I should tell him how I feel and which consequences this will bring!

The answer 7.1.3 to me sounds really difficult to interpret!

Any help is appreciated!!

Your doubts are very much reflected in your answer. Hex 7 might describe how you are planning this a bit like one would a military campaign or project. But the line show you don't actually seem to know what you want. 11 as the relating hexagram suggests to me that your first impulse to break with him was something that actually does/did move you back into the flow of life but you are now doubting yourself.

Is there any use in 'coming out' about your feelings here ? I don't think so for the reason that you don't really know what your feelings are. In 7.1 one often has a plan that actually does not tally with what one is really hoping to achieve. You know you might get very busy about some project without stopping to consider if doing the project will take you where you want to go !

In 7.3 it seems this idea is pretty much dead now....if you bring it all up again it's like trying to fight a battle whilst hauling corpses....the dead bodies here might be outworn relationships or ideas about them.

The yang pattern is 36 so there is a potential for wounding here and the yin pattern is hex 6, conflict.


I don't think you would get the response you want if you 'come out' about your feelings now. I think you made the right decision the first time when you broke up.

I think in any case even if there is a future here you won't help matters by 'coming out' about your feelings at this time, I think you may get hurt if you do.


Disclaimer I could be wrong.....mmm but if it were my reading I would try to move forward to a new goal rather than rehash an old attachment. Others may see it differently.
 

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Hi Blue Angel,

yes it is!! I did take the decision to cut this relationship few weeks ago, I was sure that for me was over... even though I asked how the relationship will evolve (because we actually work together and we are part of a big project that I'm in charge of!) and which the obstacle was...

I know it sounds confusing, but my feelings itself sometimes are confusing!!

You know when you have that insight, the little voice inside, that thing that tells that is not over, that there is still a lot!..hope!
but you don't know how to deal with it and what to do whit that!!
but it's probably just my feeling!

Thank you!!
 
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First I agree with Trojina something like 99.5% of the time so take her reading into consideration. Second, now that I "think" I understand the situation better, the prior readings I gave you do not fit. The only thing I can add is line 3 of 7 I see either as beating a now dead horse OR major damage has been done and to succeed you'll have to both be on the same page. Line 1 of 7 you'll have to get yourself together and be sure of your own feelings. Consider if its worth going forward, are you willing to put your feelings out there regardless of the outcome? Especially if you aren't even sure of your feelings. And what are his feelings? You say a "halfway" relationship. Looks like 11 things were going well and you jumped command, taking over into destruction.
 

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I know it sounds confusing, but my feelings itself sometimes are confusing!!

....and that's what this reading shows. Also feelings aren't always a great guide to action anyway.....they change like the wind...so there must be more to making a relationship than how one happens to feel at any time.

. Second, now that I "think" I understand the situation better, the prior readings I gave you do not fit.

Yes when I answered this thread I hadn't seen the other thread. I was confused to see, what looks like, a whole other relationship scenario from larouge there :confused: I mean over there she is living with someone but here in this thread she has broken up with them :confused: and that other thread was only a few days ago.
 

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I got 7.3 this morning.

I went to the dentist and she said she will have to pull a tooth next week.

There was a casualty (a tooth) because of my inedequete leadership in caring for it.

Just sharing.
 
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Moss Elk,

Ah, that's why your breath was so stinky. I could smell it all the way across the pond. ;) totally teasing, and with love. Thank you for sharing. With 7.3 changing to 46, it gives such a good visual of the "pushing upward" like the casualty (tooth) will literally be pushed up and out. Hmmm, does give something to think about in how this can possibly relate to another situation. As well as the inadequate leadership.

Trojina,

Yes, I recognized the name and thought I had just responded to a relationship question. When I went back to take a look, I was puzzled. The situations didn't fit. But I think I see or understand now. Emphasis on think. I'm curious now how the previous readings relate but a bit discouraged to take another look at the moment.
 

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I got 7.3 this morning.

I went to the dentist and she said she will have to pull a tooth next week.

There was a casualty (a tooth) because of my inedequete leadership in caring for it.

Just sharing.

interesting !

had 7.3 about something totally worn and was thinking about the procedure to replace it. Dreadful line for a procedure, in my yes , then, but I guess Yi was just highlighting the facts- it needs replacement! Another person asked Yi for me and that procedure and got 7.3 (with one-or two more lines) There was a natural deterioration and I knew one day that time would come so I guess the leader just should do what it needed - go for it.

In my experience 7.3 requires a change. Can't tell what means here, for you , larouge, but for me , meant that the old ways are no longer appropriate



 

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