Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Yes, sometimes non-action is the best course. Let all sit, with both men, and rest your thoughts. When the time is ripe, all will become clear. Sometimes I have fretted about situations and once I have dropped them, they have a way of working out without my having needed to do or say anything. Best of luck!:bows:With your "friend":
Well, men seem always to equate any kind of comradery with sexual/romantic aspects: It is very difficult to have an intense Platonic friendship with any man, unless you are far older than him and are viewed as an older sister/ mother figure - but you obviously are young, and yes, under the weight of the ensuing responsibilities, he is likely yearning for you....I think the fact that you did NOT encourage him, respond to him, or give him the idea you were "interested" has made him see that you are not going to go down that road, as you say, of just being out for fun at the expense of his pregnant GF, who I do not envy. - He may also envy and resent your Ex: He may feel your ex was a fool to spoil things with you, and is thinking, "I could do better for her"---of course all the while the pregnant gf looms ever larger as she progresses toward delivery-----argh, not a good situation, but you handled it well I think.
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Yes its very true, I thought we had a platonic thing but maybe the old stereotype is true, you cant be friends with the opposite sex. (which i will fight till my dying day!)
The funny thing is, this couple have a very solid relationship, i've been hanging out with this group for ages, and she doesnt really hang out with us, but sometimes she does, and she's really nice. Ive never seen my 'friend' even look at another girl before this stuff.
well im definitely keepin my head down from now on, do not want to even articulate the flirting, cos that would just cause more nonsense. Best to keep very quiet about it and i'm sure in a few months time my 'friend' will get his head together about the situation. he's a very nice guy, this behaviour is very strange for him. So i reckon it'll all fall into place.
as far as my ex is concerned, I dunno how to take that reading, I thought there was no chance left for us after all the stuff thats happened, so maybe both interpretations could be seen in the same light, in as far as .'Don't do anything'.
Thanks Foxx
Yxx
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).