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Second question:
What is most likely long-term if I stay with him? 19.2.3 --> 36 constancy in hardship bears fruit
Although if the Yi is still saying that despite the love there's no future then...I will hear that message and consider it...
So I see why it sounds that way, but bc of the challenges now (and digging him out of a mess) I wanted to ask what the future holds, ie will it always be me digging him out of messes, and a lot of messes, or is this going to shift and it's a temporary thing -- that's sort of where I was coming from. Friends (who do not love him as I do) say end it bc of the complexities but I've never been one to throw a relationship out just bc it gets difficult. So ...i dunno."What is most likely long-term if I stay with him? 19.2.3 --> 36 constancy in hardship bears fruit"
I read that as you were thinking of leaving.
I don't know what the 8.6 was actually about....you digging him out of a hole ? With 8.6 I wouldn't advise it.
I wanted to ask what the future holds, ie will it always be me digging him out of messes, and a lot of messes, or is this going to shift and it's a temporary thing -- that's sort of where I was coming from
Thanks Trojina for all your input by the way. (you remind me of a former member, Trojan, I dont know if she's still around)...
well *crap*. Because this is not what I wanted to hear
Why? I guess the phrase "cannot be sustained" implies repetition (to me at least) like if you dig him out now, you will dig him out later etc and the cycle will repeat, there fore it "cant be sustained" - like that (I am guessing though)?
'Sweetness nearing,
No direction bears fruit.
Already grieving it, no mistake.'
The experience or the person drawing near promises to be exclusively sweet, amenable and nice. This is not just too good to be true, it's too one sided to be whole or real. No amount of planning or intending can somehow turn pure sweetness into complete nourishment and make this sustainable. You are not wrong to grieve this and let it go.
You make a good point. And I hasten to add the "19.2-ness" of this is very very strong. As is the hope. But the ugliness of the 19.3 and the strength it has to threaten to obliterate the 19.2-ness is what scares me.
Ha how was that for Yi-speak))
The thing is if I talk to him he says "oh it will be fine, why are you worried, why are you negative." But he doesn't know the future, he can't guarantee a lot of things either... so I don't know...
Friends (who do not love him as I do) say end it bc of the complexities but I've never been one to throw a relationship out just bc it gets difficult.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).