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poeticwalking

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So I asked Yi "What has prevented me from getting in a relationship in the past?" and I'm a little confused by the answer.

1 is it that I've "tried too hard"? I feel like I've tried various things for sure (including asking out men I liked, or flirting, even
a kiss, as well as more subtle stuff like striking up conversations, asking for help with stuff, doing activities together, whatever), but at those times where dating wasn't on my mind, I wasn't "doing" anything (usually for year or two each time), nothing ever happened either. Right now in a more "active" phase altho that's just going on a few dating apps (no dates set up yet), trying to do interesting activities where I might meet people, just in general approaching more people, being friendly. For sure not overbearing.

2 I think is saying, yeah, there's an obstruction, be present where I'm at, try to enjoy what's enjoyable? The obstruction isn't my fault maybe? Be patient. Um, fine, but 37 years?

6 I don't get at all. I don't feel like I've gotten any benefits of a rain, certainly don't have what I need here, never did. Again be patient seems to be part of the message tho.

Pretty frustrating! I just feel like it's really saying to be patient, but not necessarily answering the question.

Then to change to 39 seems again to say, there's obstacles and obstructions. I can't gather from this whether it's something that's my fault or not, something I had any influence over or can do something about. If it's about trying something new to get by the obstruction, I feel at a total loss- have spent so much time trying to figure this out, trying different things, just not even sure what to do about it.

Can anyone help me to understand this more, or to suggest another question to ask to clarify? I feel like this is a very big reading, I've been pondering it for a few days and it seems understanding this could be a good key for me. TIA!
 

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Hallo there,

have you found your Blue Prince lately?
I myself have never been in a relationship. I am constantly being approached by men who are either too much younger or too much older than me, often not free and that have strange ideas about me

the rare times I end up knowing them a little (but they are not interested) or having sex with them they complain that I am not as expected, as if they had a preconceived idea of me that I had to satisfy.

I think I am their object of sexual fantasies and of course they don’t want people to see us together, they’re very ashamed of that. I am not even perceived as a prostitute, men are not usually ashamed of going with prostitutes. Something even lower.

might that be your case too? Someone looking at you only as a body to have ideas on?

I found this thread as I just had the same cast for anothermatter and can’t get hold of it either

9 should encourage to be doing everyday care actions in order to prepare the ground
It’s not time yet

39 difficulties at the moment

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Hi
This was the only thread that I could find on this particular cast Hexagram 9.1.2.6 -> hexagram 39

It was a daily cast; I am in the midst of a sequence of visiting overseas friends & it feels like I am being led away from my daily path, into more interesting things, but also, the time is not right yet for any kind of big changes in my life, but it feels like a 'seeding phase' with new inspiration coming home from revisiting old places (such as the college dept that I did my BA & MA, archaeology), so my cast relates to how to parse all of this

Firstly, I was a little dismayed to see 39, but I am literally planning to try to cross a karst / Turlough region with my friend later today, to visit a Neolithic Dolmen near some woods, so perhaps we won't be able to get there this time of year?

(a Turlough is a seasonal lake, that often disappears in summer, but also a man's name)


All in all, I don't think this cast is saying that a goal or desire is unobtainable, but that the querant is on a path already & should keep going in small ways on that path, preparing the ground for when the changes come (& possibly the desired results) via the rain?

Hexagram 9 is the card of doing the small everyday things, but often with a context of maintaining a homestead or farmstead; so repairing fences & keeping drainage ditches clear, tending the little things that all make up the big things, so whether its achieving a romantic partnership, or keeping a family fed & watered, or a special job, or that creative project, this cast would advise to keep going, maintaining the life you have, preparing for a change that will one day happen (because everything changes to it's opposite eventually)

See, I would like to write some books, get involved in archaeology projects etc, but I have no big inspiration right now & I have family responsibilities etc that preclude getting too the Top of that mountain to receive the "big visions"

So to me, this cast doesn't say that the way is blocked by a big lake, but to stay on path, keep going doing the everyday things, until the rain comes

Often, hexagram 9 hints at situations where the rain sulks in clouds, but doesn't fall, but with line 6 appearing, it seems to indicate that it *will* rain, so *be prepared*, keep making little changes that create the space in your life for the big changes you want, that will appear one day - like, planting the seeds & preparing the irrigation ditches to catch the rain, make sure your roof is waterproof etc

I think it also indicates, whether it is evident right now to the querant or not, but they are already on a path, which at the moment doesn't allow the kind of big changes like a partner, new job etc at the moment of inquiry, but this path must be completed, or played out, something has to unfold before the desired changes can manifest, but not just yet, but with hexagram 6, yes you will get this change, just make sure that your life is ready & has room in it for the job/lover/project that will eventually manifest
 

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