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loulisnowdrop

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I'm hoping to get a bit of further insight from the good folk at clarity with regard to another person in my life.

I've been puzzled about our connection and I don't understand the bond that is between us. It's like an unhealed wound that we keep open. We keep floating back to each other for no obvious reason. If I leave him alone, he contacts me and if he leaves me alone, I contact him.

I asked what is my role in X life and I recieved 50.1.6>34

The cauldron. I am nourishing him in someway. I am filling a niche, supporting a transformation, he is feeling protective of me as a result of that?

Line 1 from LiSe
A cauldron with turned-up feet. Harvest: getting out obstructions. Acquire a concubine for a son. No fault.
When things don't work, then don't be afraid to turn them upside down or inside out. Don't spare tradition, holiness or knowledge which yield no result. Even gods have a duty, don't accept one who makes unhappy


Reading this with the question posed in mind, i.e My role in his life... I am helping him to clear out obstructions possibly. He is currently dealing with a lot of past issues and often talks about them with me. I get a strong sense of 'out with the old, in with the new' on this line. Or alternatively, am I the obstruction that he is clearing out? This idea doesn't seem as fitting with my role in line 6 though.

Line 6 from LiSe
The vessel has jade rings. Great auspiciousness. There will be harvest.
Spiritual inspiration is one of the greatest things that can happen to you. It makes every aspect of your life shining, from health to relations, work, appearance, creativity, happiness. Treat it with great reverence, keep it clean and far from anything, which pulls it down. It is healing and holy


Again, interpreting with my role in mind... I somehow give him inspiration and promote positive aspects of his life to him. As a result, he feels the need to look out for me. I get a sense of a transformation nearing completion with this line.

34 is power, I'm not sure if that describes my power in his life or how he has tried to be strong.

After this, I asked 'What is X role in my life?' I got 16.1>51

It doesn't matter which interpretation I look at or which way up I read this, it tells me that I am making a mountain out of a molehill with regard to his role in my life ('Weaving of mages'). Is Yi telling me that he is not as important to me as I think and could possibly cause trouble for me? I'm not justified in saying he is important in my life or if I do act with enthusiasm about his role, there will be misfortune?

LiSe states
Known for the weaving of images. Pitfall.
Think twice before you turn an influence into an action. People, nature, your body, thoughts, an atmosphere, from all sides come influences. They make life move, but they can also cause a lot of trouble - like when Adam and Eve got themselves sent out of Paradise


As for the resulting 51, yes, a while back I had a shock because of his mindset and actions.

My interpretation seems logical but our roles seem unbalanced. Not much give and take here. Does anybody read this any differently or have further thoughts?
 

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Hi Louli, don't know if it answers your question, but a few thoughts...

I asked what is my role in X life and I recieved 50.1.6>34
50.1 Sees redeeming qualities in you
50.6 Wisdom
34:pProne to being more than he can handle

After this, I asked 'What is X role in my life?' I got 16.1>51
16.1 More show than substance
51:cool:Sweeps you off your feet
 
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Hello LSD:), have missed you on SR. Hope everything is going well for you... Just my take on this...

I think 50.1.6>34 is saying end it.

Line 1 Speaks of a new beginning kicked off with purification. I think it is saying your role in his life is to clear out the stagnation, maybe dump him and make way for a fresh start with someone else, he's rot in the pot.

Line 6 Be gentle but firm with him. This will be a good move for you.

I know this is probably not the interpretation you were hoping for, and I could be totally wrong. But this is all I can clearly see here. Questions about abstract things like roles and feelings are always tricky. But, I like questions like this:). They keep you on your toes...
 
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Thanks for your ideas, it's a puzzling one. I do feel it is a bit one sided but if a friend comes to me, I don't want to turn them away.

It isn't a romantic relationship, so it seems a little severe to end the friendship completely. I don't give anything material to the friendship so all he is gaining is conversation/support/company etc I don't want to be a crutch to permanently lean on though.
 
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Oh, I see... :duh:... Well, perhaps that is all the reading is reflecting then. That you help clear out the stagnation for this person, and by attaching to you they gain suppport. Also, reflecting how you feel dumped on. And could be saying you are gentle and yet firm with your influence, and this brings them great fortune. And, actually, should be good fortune for you then as well. Certainly, the Yi would not describe your role in this person's life as fortunate if it wasn't good for you. Sorry, I got 50.1 for a question that involved my above interpretation, so I tend to see it that way. Maybe you should ask how you can bring about a more equal exchange here... Couldn't hurt. But, that is just how some relationships are, and it's ok if you don't mind. Perhaps the only gift they have to give you is the opportunity to be of service to them... So, as long as you don't mind, and do not feel you are being exploited, and there is not excessive dependency, I think that is fine. Why not? So, yes, the give is one sided here, but the good fortune is not. I think that makes more sense in light of your question and the background. Hope this helps more than the first:eek:. Seems I always mess yours up, LSD. At least, on the first try:confused:. I either get the question wrong, or miss the background, or something. Hmmm... :bag:
 
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