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Surprise! It’s another guy/relationship question!!

I’m in a new city and have decided to actually put at least a little effort toward dating. (This is a big decision and change for me, as I’ve trapped myself for years now in a going no-where-after-the-break-up love affair!)
After meeting a few different guys (just not much interest on my part tho), I recently met one who I actually found myself interested in and somewhat attracted to as well:)

After our first date, I asked the IC to give me a little insight into this connection and I received Hex 36.4 --> 55 and looking around the archives here tells me that’s just not all that promising for something good...

This past Friday, we had date #2 and it seems to have gone well. I enjoyed him and am very interested in continuing to get to know him/date him. So I asked IC to give me a picture of the dynamics surrounding this and received Hex 56.3.5-->12…..more very UNpromising stuff…ughh..
Having a bit of a tantrum here that I can’t recall the IC often (if ever?) giving me *any* positive feedback on a romantic question. I had convinced myself not to let that get me down before bc my previous ongoing “situation” really didn’t have any healthy or positive dynamics surrounding it…so I could accept the constant negativity bc it just seemed valid and realistic (whether I liked it or not!)

I’m not particularly desperate for a relationship by any means….nor am I sure I even want some full fledged, BIG thing romantically right at the moment.. However, I am getting older, have done a lot of work on myself to heal from my past relationship, have been “alone” for nearly 5 years…and DO have big hopes and dreams at not spending the rest of my life without a significant other…
All of which the IC seems to dash almost immediately…and seemingly nearly *every* time I even start to think, “hmm…maybe this could be something nice…?” It’s getting to the point of depressing here…..and kinda as though I’m just foolish to even hope to someday share my life with someone!

Would greatly appreciate any thoughts (or encouragements?!) regarding this silly little rant of mine!
 

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Hex 36.4 --> 55
the decision that you made to go on a date with this person is more about you coming out of "retirement" or darkness, and beginning to think about meeting someone new. The reading, 36.4, talks about coming to a new place to get perspective on your old place. Here you are at the start of a new sense of understanding about your past, and that insight will allow you to start over and flourish. The reading is primarily about where YOU are at in relation to darker elements of your past and being ready to move on.

Hex 56.3.5-->12
56.3: The person you are dating is a stranger and does not know you, and you do not know him. This is all very new. Because of past romantic pain you are convinced that new relationships will also be difficult and painful. You need to leave the old behind, and let yourself transform into a new person with new potential for love. It is possible.
56.5: Be aware of your chance to create a new YOU! The fact that you are a stranger in a new place gives you a great opportunity to be different and have a different experience of love. Be careful about what you present to the new people you meet, first impressions... know and understand the gifts you have to offer others.

56>12: In quiet times of reflection do not be discouraged, do not dredge up the old, stuck, stinky, attitudes you have worked so hard to dispel. Just rest in the idea that you are using the old muck as compost for your new blossoming self.
 

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Hi!

I'm new to yi readings, this is what I think based on my intuition and
my personal experience with Yi.
Before I even read your post for some reason I had a very good feeling about this whole thing
for you in spite of seemingly negative Yi readings. May be I'm picking up on your hope and enthusiam towards this new person in your life? Not sure...

Again I'm a very new and inexperienced Yi reader but I feel that may be this seemingly negative readings either talk about your past experinces, or reflect your innermost fears. Yes, you recently came out of dificulties, and you are a stranger in a strange land and not too comfortable there yet.

You need to believe that things can and will be good for you.
And they will. :)

I do not believe your self-healing work was done in vain. May be you are just afraid that unpleasant things will happen again to you?
Right after I read the title of your thread the phrase "Yes, go for it" came to my mind.

Again, please take all this with a huge grain of salt please because this is more than just
Yi readings you have.

In my experince Yi seems to have a mind of its own and for me sometimes does not
answer my questions directly but rather reflects my own anxieties at the moment.

-CC
 
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Danadanadana.... Thank you so much!! It does make sense of the chronic negativity if I look at it from my experience and fears perspective as opposed to the future possibilities, as you suggest and explain so well! Thank you:)

Cutiecat: I'm so glad you shared your thoughts and intuitions about this...it really gives me a little hope that I'm not just surrounded by "negativity" in my romantic endeavors and hopes. I am a very intuitive person as well and I place a high value and appreciation on others' instincts as well! In fact, it's difficult for me to read others' questions in here and offer my insight with out including my instinctive thoughts mixed up with my interpretation.
I have a lot of respect for Trojan's IC experience, but I'm not sure why the random attack here...? You've been so kind to respond...and it doesn't matter to me if it's right or not, I appreciate and value your insight tremendously... From reading through these later posts, it sounds like Trojan is maybe having a frustrating day in general?
Thank you so much Cutiecat!!!
Namaste'
 

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Hey!

I hope things work out for you with him. I'd love it if you can keep me posted.
But be careful in a sense of not trusting your heart too easily to a person you do not know all to well!

-CC
 

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To OP

There is one more thing that might be helpful. Write down all the "mistakes" you think you've ever done in your previous relationships, like trusting too much, having sex too quickly and so on, whatever applies, I'm not suggesting in any way that these may apply to you. Just as an example. Right them down, and look at these notes periodically. Hopefully it will give you a better control over the situation. Also write down your wish list, what qualities and traits you would find absolutely necessary and what are the nice to have. Just a suggestion to minimize the probability of any potential future heart ache.

To be honest I'm as puzzled about Trojan as you are. I'm not sure it's a bad day case. It seems much more formidable to me at this moment. But that's Ok I guess this is a normal Inet forum thing. There are always all kinds of people there.
 
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