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You've fallen into Beginner's Mistake #3: trying to predict the future. I Ching doesn't tell the future, it tells the present.So I've asked the Iching about whether we will be back together. The answer is confusing me.
40 is Release and 47 is Confined.
@elias :
Also have you made a typo? Because I got 40.5 and not 40.3
@danadanadana : Thanks for your answer. Have you also made a typo on 40.3?
You've fallen into Beginner's Mistake #3: trying to predict the future. I Ching doesn't tell the future, it tells the present.
You've fallen into Beginner's Mistake #3: trying to predict the future. I Ching doesn't tell the future, it tells the present.
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I don't know if their is a book but on the website, under Learn -> Introduction, you have a page that is close to what elias said :
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/learn/begin/what-can.php
personally, I believe there are no "rules" or beginners mistakes other than, if you know the format you want to use for throwing the coins or doing the yarrow sticks and know what is is you want to know than that is all there is to it. Everyone communicates with the I ching in their own personal way and the I Ching responds accordingly to that person...it is a very personal matter. There are no right or wrong questions to ask and there are many different methods of using it and varying translations available as well . I am constantly confused why some feel the need to tell someone else they can't ask certain questions or consult in a certain way???
The notion that there is "no rules" is like saying "there's no wrong way to play the piano." There may be no "wrong" ways, but not all ways are equal, and some are distinctly better. What does any good teacher do? Establish a good foundation for your practice. Then you are free to explore and take the whole endeavor into new realms. Thrash about in a wholly undisciplined manner and the likelihood of getting anything useful falls to next-to-nothing.I believe there are no "rules" or beginners mistakes other than ....
I am constantly confused why some feel the need to tell someone else they can't ask certain questions or consult in a certain way??
I have a question about choosing a question
Let's say I've started to try to seduce her. Is "How does she react to this?" is a well chosen question?
But let's say that I haven't tried yet and I ask "How will she react if I try?"
The latter is not as good as the previous one, given the different situations.
Am I right?
I'm not aware of any real "manual," I just started numbering these issues that come up again and again ...
1. Don't ask yes-no questions. (If you want a yes-no answer, flip a coin...) A good teacher makes you think through issues, contemplate the past, and project outcomes, rather than providing a simple answer. IC is a very good teacher...
2. It is very difficult - if not impossible - to get into someone else's head. The fact that you're asking the question "What is __ thinking" is the best indicator that you are not in a place to make sense of the answer, even if one were provided.
3. IC doesn't tell the future, it tells the present -- as explained above in 10.
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I reckon there may be useful guidelines for newbies on how to use the I Ching but if people have been using it for some time, they develop their own relationship with the oracle, much as after learning to drive, we all drive and handle our cars in our own way... till a passenger gets in and starts telling us how we should drive LOL !!
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The only sensible and humane step in addressing individuals in crisis is to encourage them to reframe their questions into something that IC can address. This leads them to a more objective understanding of the issues in and behind their relationships. That breakthrough, when one can finally, for a moment, take an objective breath, is when healing begins and progress toward a solution (with or without that lost love) can get underway.
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Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).