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Will he express me love interest?
58.3.4 (5)
Or he could be very happy, 6 years is a long time to be with someone. You aren't going to know how happy he is with his girlfriend this way. He knows and shows what he wants by staying with his girlfriend. Until he tells you he is confused and wants to leave her you have to take it he's not available to you.And.. Is he confused if he wants me or his girlfriend?
64.1.2.6 >51
Hmm I don't like the resulting hexagram.. Really complicated steps..
He gets his tail in the water and then he stops..and then when the struggle is over and celebrates, he is shocked...
Ok, he doesn't know what he wants.
I guess after 6 years with the same partner he is not so happy in his relationship...
Really, I am not suffering or feeling sad because of his relationship. I like him and that's all.There's no sign he is choosing between the two of you is there? He's with her, in a relationship with her.
Until he actually comes out and says he wants to end that and be with you you have to take it he is unavailable don't you?
He could just be flirting, playing games, enjoying your company, liking you, finding you attractive but with no intention at all of leaving her. Hard for you but this is a very common scenario in work situations and it seems to me it's the woman who generally suffers always believing it's going somewhere because he's sending off such loved up signals. He may be sending out loved up signals but he hasn't left her! So he wants to stay with her. So your difficult task is accepting this.
Thanks for linking to previous threads to clarify the situation. One thing I'm still confused about is I thought in another thread you said he talked a lot about a past relationship but now it's a relationship he's still in?
Or he could be very happy, 6 years is a long time to be with someone. You aren't going to know how happy he is with his girlfriend this way. He knows and shows what he wants by staying with his girlfriend. Until he tells you he is confused and wants to leave her you have to take it he's not available to you.
I won't look at the reading because at this point I don't think more readings help. I also don't believe in the trying to use the the I Ching to mind read other people, it doesn't work it's just guessing only he knows what's in his head and we'd be having a huge delusional ego trip of omniscience to claim access to the contents of his mind which is still private.
That's damn right.He's probably waiting for you to make the first move. It's very common for cheaters to tease their next victim by showing little signs, but overall being vague and unclear. This forces the victim to take the first step. Then that absolves the cheater of the responsibility, as it wasn't 'them' who started it.
I am not suffering or feeling sad because of his relationship. I like him and that's all.
.... something seems amiss here in this 'relationship'?
What should I do? .... about my very toxic, selfish, arrogant strict and domineering father ....
47.2.3>31
These are some very interesting points actually. You are absolutely correct. My father's toxic behaviour creates me a lot of troubles with my relationships, but this is something I fight inside me day by day and I feel very proud of myself.Following up on what I shared above, I am struck by you're reading about your Father, whom is your worst enemy:
I think this reading about your father is giving you important information and advice, perhaps about your other 'relationships' as well ....
As I see it, 47.2.3 is saying you are in Distress (hex. 47) about pursuing a joyful relationship - maybe because of the presence of an invisible tyrant or dictator (your father) that you - perhaps unknowingly - carry with, or within you. This weighs you down, and feels as if you're 'grasping at thorns'. And because of this, you may not be able to see - or imagine - a real partner or mate. ***
In this reading Hex. 47's lower trigram (3-line figure) is Water with two moving lines; Lake is the upper trigram: I think Lake represents you and your desire to be happy and be in a communicative, joyful relationship. But trigram Water below with two moving lines is you being swept along by a raging, rage-filled river, whom we can name "Raging-Toxic-Father-River". And being swept along by this river may never get you to your destination, of having a joyful relationship.
So perhaps, first you need to STOP (31's lower trigram Mountain); and dry off and heal yourself from the hurt caused by this toxic wild river journey. And once you've done this, "Your plea is heard / Good fortune" (from Hex. 47)
Maybe this feels harsh? However, I think that sometimes the Yi speaks to us in 'unfortunate' or 'disastrous' terms to get our attention and wake us up a bit. Maybe this is something worth paying attention to - and perhaps it's more important than who this guy 'likes' on social media?
Regards, D
*** Note: I based my interpretation above on parts of S. Fields translation (I've changed the gender):
47.2: She is distressed with food and wine, and then come the scarlet knees.
47.3: Distressed by stone, she grasps at thorns. Entering her palace she does not see (a) wife.
Am I looking desperate? Is it a bad thing to ask questions for someone?
Clarity,
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