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bookofchanges

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I asked the Yi if I will ever be in a successful relationship and the
answer it gave me was Hex 13 unchanging.

Hex 13 is Harmony.

From Huang's book he says
-People with the same interests
-working together in harmony
-At first struggle, ending in laughter

I take this as giving me advice that I will most likely find
this person in some function of shared interests and it will
be dealing with the process of achieving the same goal
that at first will be a struggle then will become harmonious.

The thing I'm not sure of is, since I'm new to the I-Ching, is that
is this giving me purely advice? Or is this predicting as well? Telling me, "Yes,
you will be on these conditions."
Since it's saying that whatever endeavor this is going to be
will involve struggle at first. I mean anyone can simply tell me,
"Ya, you should hang out in some place where your interests lie."
That's advice. BUT when it's telling me that it will be through a struggle by way of achieving a goal,
then this enters the realm of prediction. Right?

I need different perspectives on this, so please chime in. :D
 
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meganj

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in a way yes it is predicting.. things are always changing constantly though.
whenever you date someone new there is always struggle because of diverse viewpoints.
maybe the yi is simply saying u already have successful relationships with others and in that is where u will find ur person. it is where ur interests lie that u will find that (",)
 

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because lets be realistic here. love and relationships dont just appear out of thin air. its built up from a strong foundation of common interests and personal needs. so find someone with the sames interests or the same likes.. someone that mirrors urself or evens u out. its within u to develop a healthy relationship, try to be honest with urself and recognize wat works and what doesnt as u get to know someone. dont naive.
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"u already have successful relationships with others and in that is where u will find ur person"

This one I didn't consider. Thank you.

Definitely, I always saw the basis of good relationship as kinship, even though there are obviously going to be points of disagreement. It's like that line from "Somebody" by Depeche Mode that goes,
"Though my views may be wrong. They may even be perverted. She'll hear me out and won't easily be converted. To my way of thinking, in fact she'll often disagree. But at the end of it all, she will understand me."
 

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yeah girl, find someone who understands you and you understand them. like a very good friend type, someone that you love dearly and want to spend the rest of ur life with.
 

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