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sartoris

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I've been through a lot lately. She's been through a lot as well.

We have feelings for each other since we've met, but many things prevented us from being together.

We are getting closer lately. But she seems uncertain to start anything at the moment... And she gave me good reasons for that. And I truly understand.

I asked Yi:

How does she feel about me?
The Yi answered 55 uc - maybe she’s feeling somehow overwhelmed? I can’t see this hexagram as a good answer, although it’s translated as Abundance...

How does she feel about our situation?
And I received 5.4 - I can see the idea of waiting, but line 4 is confusing. What might waiting in blood mean?

How will the situation evolve if I keep on this course?
The Yi answered 8 uc - I see it as a good omen, although it implies great responsibility...

What’s the best approach for me to take?
And I got 59.3 - Dispersion might mean I need to give time for things to work themselves out. Maybe forgetting about what I want and focusing on what she wants (I’ve read this interpretation somewhere around the forum...)

What are her intentions towards me?
The Yi answered 34.1.2.6 - And I’m completely lost on this one. I’ve been trying to understand its meaning, but I haven’t come to any consistent conclusion.. any help?!


Maybe I asked too many questions. Maybe I asked the wrong ones — All I want to know is that if I put my efforts on us, will we be finally together? Somehow I haven’t made this question so far, because I think the answer might be on the other consultations...

Any ideas? Thanks so much in advance.

Sartoris
 

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55. and 5.4 both suggest she feels your relationship has some how reached a peak. It's time for there to be a significant shift or it's time to move on, decide to get closer together or farther apart.
If you continue doing what you are doing you will continue to desire to be in partnership.
Your best approach is don't draw attention to yourself.
Her intentions towards you are that she doesn't want to lose you but she feels she will eventually move on. Could you handle being with someone who might toy with your affection? Be very calm and let her feel for herself if she is attracted to you on a deeper level. She'll be less likely to toss you aside if she has to court you. I guess I'm saying play hard to get or at least have faith that if something is meant to be it will happen.

All in all seems to describe recognizing there is a connection but uncertain as to what one should do with it. Like meeting someone you knew in a former life and now you are uncertain if you want to pick up where you left off or better to avoid each other with only nodding glances,
 

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How does she feel about me? The Yi answered 55 uc
Her romantic feelings for you is at its peak.

How does she feel about our situation? And I received 5.4
That it has been stale for too long and it's time for an important decision.

How will the situation evolve if I keep on this course? The Yi answered 8 uc

You keep up to seek union but without any considerable change.

What’s the best approach for me to take? And I got 59.3
To go beyond the mere personal fulfillment & take the other's needs more into consideration.

What are her intentions towards me? The Yi answered 34.1.2.6
She wants to hugely attract you, of course feels the need to control this urge. She wants to continue your relationship, however finds herself in a position where she can't return, neither she can move forward, at this moment.

P.S: If you write the relating hexagram it would be easier for us to analyze your readings. Thanks
 

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Sorry for the late reply.

Thank you both for your kind responses.

Rosada, you’re right. She might be playing with my feelings, as long as I stay where I am, available and ready for something serious.

I’ve been staying away for the time, being receptive when she comes (and she still comes by eventually, probably to check on me). And yes, marybluesky, she seems stuck. She was invited (by me) to make a big revolution in her life, and all kinds of fears and distrust probably came about.

I’m not so great at making questions to the Yi, since I don’t want to bother it with superficial ones. I’ve asked it only once more, with the question “Show me the scenario between us”.

And I got 44.5 to 50.

Sounds like a good line (and a good relating hex), BUT it seems that this girl can’t take my proposal seriously. I assume she’s not that mature as I was expecting her to be (melon is not yet ripen?). So it takes time and patience, which I don’t know I’ll have it for too long, lol

All I know is that I can fell there’s love and respect in this story, and that’s what makes me still believe in it.

Maybe I should ask more questions? Maybe I should take longer to do it, so meanwhile I can meditate more on this answer Yi just gave me? Have any ideas? Elaborating them is tough, I’m always lost when I need to ask Yi for something...

Thanks!
 
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