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becalm

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I was staying with an acquaintance and $100 of their money went missing and straight away he accused me of taking it....not nice and not true. Besides that he's extremely generous and as I pointed out to him If I wanted a $100 all I'd have to do is ask him and he'd willingly lend/give it to me.Where is the $100 14.1.2.4.6>15 By accusing me I feel he's questioning my integrity Hex 15 and and I think the reading reflects him buying something he now Possesses Hex 14.....apparently he keeps the money in a spare room in his house but we were also buying alot of things for his home during that time... Show me a picture of where the money is.....Hex14.2>30 oh dear this to me looks like the money's in his car Line 2 and using a torch Hex 30 he may just find it or if he thinks about it he'll get Clarity that he spent it and his car carried the possession home.
 

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Hi becalm,

"Where's the money?"
14.1.2.4.6 to 15 ~ It's gone, and it's not your problem to solve.

Being on the receiving end of false accusation is something that happens to everyone, sooner or later? Out of all of your options for responding ~ righteous indignation, profound insult, snap judgement, recoil in horror, etc, etc ~ the Yi counsels Modesty as your best strategy for dealing with the situation?

So, where is the money? The money was seen (14) by a young female (line 1, wind) who took it for her travel expenses (line 2, mountain) ~ it's not you.

In the greater scheme of things, imho, $100 is not enough to get riled-up over something that just isn't true (line 4)? You can stride through ankle-biters like that without sacrificing your personal peace to respond to the phantom challenges of someone else's environment of insecurity (line 6)?

In that sense, one can think of Modesty (15, return to center) as the cost of personal Nobility in a fallen world?

I hope this helps!
 
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Freedda

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The response could be offering you an opportunity to 'enrich' your life, to find value and worth beyond accusations and blame (by all involved).

Or, it could be telling us that you really did take the money!

Which do you think is true?
 
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The Yi looks to have picked up on your feeling challenged by the accusation

14.1.2.4.6>15
14: How you react to/ think about the situation will become the centre of what you experience.
line 1 - this is difficult for you to experience, however really engage with what is bubbling up for you
line 2 - this can lead you to great insights about your reactions and behaviours
line 4 - reflect and be discerning. This is not a time for aggression or winning at all costs.
15: Stay close to the truth and find a way to balance the opposing views in this situation

Show me a picture of where the money is.....Hex14.2>30

14: The wealth (the money) this in your inner harmony
line 2 -
use your insights about your reactions and behaviours as your vehicle
30: to bring about changes in how you feel inside and how you can then shine in the world.
 
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becalm

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Thanks radiofreewill - definitely not my problem to solve and he thinks I should have reacted in indignantion to his accusations when all I did was say well no I didn't take it but let's work out where it may have gone....his house is fitted out with an alarm system so noone can enter the place including a young girl, whomever she may be. The thing is there was $2,800 AUD why would someone just take $100...
 
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becalm

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Thanks Freedda....*The response could be offering you an opportunity to 'enrich' your life, to find value and worth beyond accusations and blame (by all involved* Very good point and very true
 
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becalm

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Thanks my_key..... 14: The wealth (the money) this in your inner harmonyline 2 - use your insights about your reactions and behaviours as your vehicle30: to bring about changes in how you feel inside and how you can then shine in the world.It certainly upset my equilibrium and everything you've said in your reply is definitely what I need to do.
 
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becalm

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I retained my Integrity and watched my reactions when he continued to insist I took the money and it helped me a lot to keep gauging my reaction to this ongoing false accusation and in the end I regained my equilibrium and sense of peace again. Today he called and apologised for accusing me. He didn't find the money but he realises now he was in the wrong without any substantial evidence.
 
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Freedda

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I retained my Integrity and watched my reactions when he continued to insist I took the money and it helped me a lot to keep gauging my reaction to this ongoing false accusation and in the end I regained my equilibrium and sense of peace again. Today he called and apologised for accusing me. He didn't find the money but he realises now he was in the wrong without any substantial evidence.
Well, for once the I Ching got it right!

Thanks for following up with us.
 

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Just placing a bet here in case your friend ever does find his $:
Perhaps 14.2 could in this instance refer to what he carries his money around in, that is, his wallet? Perhaps he tucked the money in his wallet and then didn't take it all out when he put the larger amount away in the bedroom? If you ever find out what really happened I hope you'll update this thread!
 
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becalm

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I will update rosada for sure if I ever find out....I'd love to know as well!!
 
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becalm

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I never did find out because he didn't stop with accusations about something or other but mostly they revolved around money. So one day a couple of weeks after this post I walked out and haven't spoken to him since. But our situation did me a huge favour in learning about myself and how one allows oneself to be treated.
 

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