Advice: Hexagram 50, on question of relationship with existing partner...

[casparky]

Dear all,

My question: "What should I do about mine and ....'s relationship...?"
Answer:

6. yang, unchanging
5. yin, changing
4. yang, unchanging
3.yang, changing
2. yang, changing
1.yin, changing

hexagram 50, all lines changing apart from the yang line in the fourth pace and the yang line in the sixth...

The resulting changing lines create: Innocence hexagram

What do ya think of this...?

All advice welcome, thanks mucho! Lots of love and light to all and best wishes for your beloved IChing readings...!

Love & Light,

Casparky xx

 

[saturn]

What you should do is take care of this relationship because it is good. Be mindful and cherish it. You deserve a good relationship and will ultimately have it.

I'm really new to this, but this is what I feel you should do. good luck

 

[cutiecat]

I wanted to share my personal experience with this combination as you might find it helpful.
I used to get this combination when I was engaged to be married or and we were fighting,
but it was a very solid and close relationship inspite of couple cat fights
I also read somewhere that when 4 lines changing you read the other two the fixed one.
Also obviously there is a lot of dynamics in this reading and may be heated or hurt feelings.
Overall this must a very dear and important person to you a person who stirs your soul and certainly does not leave your indifferent or lukewarm. Could be some sort of karmic relationship as well.
As for the advice I do not think there is an advice here at all.
You basically have a free choice what to do with her. No one can advice you in this situation, it's solely your decision. The advice actually might not be to do anything out of the ordunary,
but feeling your feelings and listening to them and being your natural self pretty much
or let the relationship progress naturally.

Being a new Yi reader myself, I hope you take this with the grain of salt.


-CC

 

[Trojina]

I wanted to share my personal experience with this combination as you might find it helpful.
I used to get this combination when I was engaged to be married

-CC

what happened ? how did this combination play out in your personal experience ?

 

[willowfox]

What are the choices?

You can stay on and make a success of it or you can.........?

 

[danadanadana]

50.1.2.3.5 > 25
Hex 50 represents the sacred vessel of your marriage/relationship. The relationship is there to contain or hold you and your partner, here you can cook up all kinds of nurturing goodies, or you can contaminate the feast with bad behavior and poisonous interactions.

50.1: One must clean out the pot before starting to prepare a new feast. There is some old rotten material that needs to be cleared up.

50.2: You and your partner each go through your own difficulties at different times, the trick is to be there for each other without becoming embroiled in each other's problems. If you can maintain an objective perspective on your friend's troubles you will be able to be more helpful then if you take his problems personally, and vice versa.

50.3: The enjoyment of the feast is blocked by difficulties and this is a shame because there is a beautiful experience that is possible. It is the small things that are blocking the feast, small but very crucial things like listening to each other, caring how each other feel, being in close contact as expressed by affectionate gestures and glances. These are the "handles" that make it possible to lift the sacred vessel of relationship and serve your partner a large, delicious bowlful.

50.5: When the feast is lovingly, and carefully prepared, and the diners are seated, and everything is ready, then the enjoyment and well being that flows from the experience is a great blessing!

50 > 25: Hex 25 is about Innocence, but it is also about blame. Who is to blame for the loss of love and mutual respect that once was the vessel for your relationship? It is easy to project our own mistakes onto our loved ones, as if they were the cause of our own mistakes, and it is easy for others to blame us for their errors. This type of behavior is a mixed-up, crazy way of expressing feelings that are hard to admit to ourselves. Take the time to look inside and straighten out your own emotions, and hopefully your partner does the same. Then lovingly, be as a couple and try to avoid blaming each other for your problems, just face them together and give each other the support to deal with problems together.

 

[casparky]

Het!

Thank you ALL SO MUCH fgor your response, it's very interesting - I've been using the IChing for many years but find using it on myself full of challenges - I think often giving yourself a reading is very difficult 'cos you're too close to the situation and therefore find it hard to find the truth...

This is very interesting answers, love to all and thank you so much!!! KEEP THEM COMING I LEARN MUCH BY THIS, I will also share some veiws too as we go along...

Casparky xxx

 

[arabella]

Uh-oh.

 

[Trojina]

uh-oh

 

[hilary]

Moving some posts to moderation...
...here they are.

 

[casparky]

Interpretation of Hexagram 50 with two unmoving lines...

I've interpreted it in the end by reading lines 4 and lines 6 from Wilhelms translation as direct answers: (only reading the non changing lines when there are four moving lines)

Line4:

Taking on too much and not giving 100% will lead to misfortune...

Line:6

(Jade carrying handles to vessel) Able to carry the nourishment and community in a just virtuous way...

They seem to contracdict each other but I'm using line 4 first because it happens first in time and then (because after adjustment, I.E: giving 100% to the relationship) success follows...

Then the general meaning of Hexagram 50 which is Sacrifice, working with higher power/God to attain your will, through religious process and supplification to God, worshipping of God and also focusing on providing nourishmnet for the community... (relationship and family)...

Then for the more longer term advice/prediction:

The resulting Hexagram "Innocence" (from the changing lines): act without malicious cause working with what is most passionate with no alteroir motive from an innocent heart, purity and living in the moment...

I agree with comments that this is a deep relationship that is very important to me and their is much Karmic stuff and letting go of past hang-ups on both sides:

I will be living in the moment as much as possible, being calm, patient and understanding and work as hard as possible to nourish those closest to me...


"The embodiment of the Iching: to cultivate virtue constantly to sustain all beings..."

Peace to all

xx

 

[casparky]

Hmm interesting replies!

Please be patient with me here:

Are you guys relying with: "uh-oh" because of my spelling or what I was saying in response to your answers to these questions...?

Thanks

 

[casparky]

Uh-oh.

Hmm, is this because of my spelling or the content of what I am writing in response to peoples advice to this reading - this could be beneficial for me understanding the IChing, myself and it's use..

serious replies welcome..! Or light hearted ones!

Thanks

 

[willowfox]

Hmm interesting replies!



Are you guys relying with: "uh-oh" because of my spelling or what I was saying in response to your answers to these questions...?

No this strange reply is because the forum is having another one of its annual "witch hunts" and as your new, your a prime suspect that's all.

 

[willowfox]

You haven't explained your story that pushed you to ask your original question, like is the relationship in trouble, are you fed up with her, etc? And what would you prefer to do?

 

[casparky]

Hiya willowfox,

Thank you so much for your help and interest - I have asked the IChing again about this relationship, it is tough at the moment, lots of arguing, we split up before I went to India in Feb 2010, then got back togther as she seemed to be more empowered and happy and she came out to India for two weeks which was a great trip, I've never been that keen on the relationship but while in India thought I would come back to UK, move in with her and her two 9 year olds and make a go of it, but unfortunately it's been a really rocky ride, so I asked the Iching again just yesterday, the answer is here, comments welcome...
THREAD TITLE: Should I leave N & follow the dream?H:47&8

But in answer to your question above: I really don't think I can make it work as attraction was never there very much physically and now I've lost more attraction because of the arguments and I think I am not ready to take on family, just wish to travel again...

However, I have learnt alot about this relationship - even if it's that I shouldn't go out with people I need to help (reflecting my mothers relationship because she was mentally ill) - relationships should be there for us to walk along side and be supported and enjoy company and that I need to be attracted signficantly physically for it to last...

But let me know what you think from the new IChing reading!!


Lots of love and light,


Casparky