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florecilla

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I went with my boyfriend on his trip and everything went well until the last day. We had a conversation about us (he is going through a lot lately and I feel lonely, as if he didn't love me enough) and we were about to break up, but we didn't.
Today I asked the I ching the following questions:
What do I need to know about my relationship with M? 13 (1, 5) - 56.
How does our future together look like? 48 (1, 2, 4, 6) - 13.
What must my attitude be in these moments in my relationship? 40 (1, 5, 6) - 10.
What is going on in me regarding my boyfriend? 8 (1, 2 , 3, 5) - 11
Due to the amount of moving lines it is hard for me to get the meaning. I would appreciate your help a lot.
Thank you so much.
 

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What great questions! Direct, specific, truly seeking an honest answer, and that acknowledge your own role in the dynamic. I can't help but think you already know the answers! :)

The recurrence of Hex 13 suggests to me friendship and community (even though some versions have it as 'Lovers'). Hex 40 in your third question seems surprisingly direct: Release. Even the fifth line Hex. 8 seems to suggest this. All of it looks so positive, though, suggesting to me that if you let him go for now, give him space, he will either remain with you in some good way or other, or you will easily find someone else within the same circle.

Would be curious what others see, though.
 

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What great questions! Direct, specific, truly seeking an honest answer, and that acknowledge your own role in the dynamic. I can't help but think you already know the answers! :)

The recurrence of Hex 13 suggests to me friendship and community (even though some versions have it as 'Lovers'). Hex 40 in your third question seems surprisingly direct: Release. Even the fifth line Hex. 8 seems to suggest this. All of it looks so positive, though, suggesting to me that if you let him go for now, give him space, he will either remain with you in some good way or other, or you will easily find someone else within the same circle.

Would be curious what others see, though.

Thank you jfas for your answer. I really don't know the answers, I know I need to step back as I am getting too involved in this relationship and I feel really confused, sometimes I don't even know what I really want to do. I am not able to act naturally.
The advice is really good but it is hard for me, since I feel very insecure.
Yet, I need more clarification on these hexagrams. I am also curious to know what others see. Thanks so much again for your answer.
 

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