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Thank you for taking the time to respond. That is my impression too I just wish for some more clarity about the nature of this energy and how to manage it... this is the frustrating bit of receiving a static reading! No direction, no advice...That’s a lot of 34 uc! I would say the dynamic between the two of you creates a very powerful energy - and to be cautious with it. That kind of energy can both create and destroy.
Thank you for taking the time to respond. That is my impression too I just wish for some more clarity about the nature of this energy and how to manage it... this is the frustrating bit of receiving a static reading! No direction, no advice...
Perhaps @MadameOak if it's not too much to ask, what is your view on the last 3 readings 34>46, 39>49 and 33>53?
Hi! I'll give an overall try on 34, as you reiceived it many times.So the story goes on... Below is the link to previous thread but in short, there is a very important and at times emotionally exhausting connection I have with R who is 16y my junior. We started out in early 2019 as a one night stand but it quickly developed into something more which I guess freaked him out and spurred a complete life overhaul for me which to be honest was a long time coming. Also, by a strange twist of fate I have since formed a professional allegiance with R's father who is of course un aware of our history.
https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/fri...ationship-where-is-it-going-61-2-to-42.30571/
Furthermore R has a girlfriend now of about 5 months though something tells me they might have split over the Christmas holidays... considering I know what his life goals are and settling down in his home town at this age is not one of them! The girl on the other hand is early 30's too, professionally established, financially secured... do the maths.
I must say I have a pretty good idea of what my position in R life is and vice-versa as well as how to proceed, but I have been consulting IChing as a end of a cycle thing recently and getting a lot of 34 unchanging and with lines which I'm not too sure how to interpret!
So recently I had a meeting with his father at his house with both R and his mother present. It was the first time after I had a melt down when I found out about the girlfriend and I deleted him from all social media... and it was a nice friendly reunion in the background of a work meeting. So over several days since, asked
How did seeing me affect R? 34 unchanging
and then trying to get more clarity also
What is R position in relationship to me now? 34 unchanging
then a few days later
Who/what does R want to be in my life? (not a great question I know) 34 unchanging
and
What is the relationship potential between R and I? 34 unchanging
also
What is my position in relationship to R? 34.1.4 to 46
and then not a 34 answer
What is R attitude towards me at present? 39.1.4 to 49
I really don't know what to make of all these 34? Does he see me as powerful? Does he want to overpower me? Power-on or power-down?? I see 34.1.4. to 46 as me being in a strong position and being able to exert positive change if I proceed carefully and in pace with the evolving situation.
And 39.1.4 to 49 perhaps he is undergoing a transformation which will result in removing of the barrier he has put up between us in an attempt to protect himself?
I also asked how does R want to interact with me to which I got 33.4. to 53 which to me sounds abit like a cha-cha, 2 steps forward one step back LOL
As said, I think I have a pretty good idea how to keep the connection going until such time when we can discuss openly and honestly because I have no doubt in my mind that he has an important and ongoing role to play in my life as I have in his.
But in the mean time I would really appreciate your view on interpreting hexagram 34 in this context?
Thank you and wishing all a healthy and 11ish 2021!
P
Hello @Matali thank you for respondingHello Petragg !
Yes there is a great advice with the hexagram 34 for all your questions : you must stop moving towards this man... The Image of 34 : "the noble man does not walk in paths that do not conform to order."
34.1 "misfortune, pitfall" is a warning to stop your movement towards him. Just keep him as a friend maybe ?
As you see with 39-49, there is an obstacle because of a transformation in his life (probably the other woman).
The challenge in romantic relationships is to find the right person for you, patience
Hi @ClavdiaChauchat thank you for your contribution!Hi! I'll give an overall try on 34, as you reiceived it many times.
I think you play the role of the masculine type hier. But, i think, that's too much for him. This power should be in accord and harmony with good intensions only. He, on his side, would love to play the role you are currently playing. Is this a power-based relationiship? Overall, i think yes.
Hello @Matali thank you for responding
Circumstances are such that I can not "move towards him" anyway... there is much to accomplish before I can give myself permission to to move towards anybody... So yes, I can not afford to waste my energies walking on a path that is not solid and with no clear direction!
And the 39-49 i think just need to remove myself from his plate as I think he has enough to contend with.
Wish me to stand firm in my resolution! lol
I had further thoughts on this and for anybody trying to interpret this they would have to have to know a bit about my life before R.Why did R come into my life? 47.1.2.4.5.6. to 27
Absolutely you galvanize each other, as far as it's a power based relationship!Hi @ClavdiaChauchat thank you for your contribution!
My best and oldest friend calls me "The Man" so I guess there is more truth in your words than you realise! In many ways I may be seen as an accomplished independent woman that has it all... career, family, social standing.... I have often suspected that he compares himself to me and being a young alpha guy my power irks him as much as it attracts him. It is a power based relationship and as long as he can keep me in wanting of his attention he has power over me at least in this ?
Thank you for helping me make this connection Clavdia.
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