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:brickwall:hmmm me and my ex bf broke up four weeks ago and things r ok right now.. ive been trying to be really nice and respectful. i got up early today and made breakfast for us.. then we had lunch together and we were watching a movie and he asked if he could come cuddle with me.. its confusing becuz weve been giving each other space buut.. what up with the cuddling?
so i asked the yi, why does he do this? with the cuddling and stuff?


im really confused..
 
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is this before or after now?
in any case, i would say you are in process of creating your own ting, your own nourishment unit, so to speak...it is in the process and caution is very much needed in these times because things can go wrong very easily...but looks like he is not keeping his end of the deal, perhaps he does not take your words seriously enough? or the flash is weak..And 'things' seem to have a mind of their own, they react to your lack of attention.LiSe
W. Before completion, attack brings misfortune.
The time of transition has arrived, but one lacks the strength to complete the transition. If one should attempt to force it, disaster would result, because collapse would then be unavoidable. What is to be done? A new situation must be created; one must engage the energies of able helpers and in this fellowship take the decisive step-cross the great water. Then completion will become possible.

Legge is not that optimistic, though.
anyway, if you are still together but taking time out from intimacy, perhaps engage in individual hobbies, or activities...maybe together, but in a group...work on other aspects of your ting other then physical ones...
hope this makes sence, bgood, d ;-)
 
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Meganj it sounds like a similar situation I was just in - the reason I tried to break up the relationship is that he was incapable of any emotional availablity but had no problem with engaging with me in every other way and we had a great time together although I became quite dissatisfied with our physical intimacy because it was just that for him a physical with no emotion behind it.
It took a couple of goes but finally I was able to make a clean break from him we have remained friends - I am guessing here the attraction is still there between you and probably the fact that it sounds like you actually like each other. I ended up going to counselling to sort it out maybe that would help you too.

Good Luck Melissa
 

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thanks for replying ladies.
an update for everyone else..
well it happened again, what can i say we still have very strong feelings for each other, im still going home of course but he has said that he wants to work on this so thats kind of a relief. I'm looking forward to rebuilding something with him:) im glad for that.
and in regards to the reading, well the part about inattention couldnt be more right.
yesterday as i was getting ready to go out for the night with a friend he acted very jealous and possessive of me, my detachment and lack of attention seemed to make him panic.. he ended up asking me a bunch of questions like if i had a date and where i was going, he wouldnt believe me when i said with friends.. then he asked if we could go to a movie, so we did.
anyways we came back to our apartment and hung out with our roommate for a bit (i ended up not going out) and then we laid in bed and talked.. it was really good because now i know where we stand.
im looking forward to the summer though i have alot of plans and i hope to start over.
:)
 

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ohh hey i got this same exact reading for a question about what i can do back home so i dont go crazy with boredom!
is it basically saying work on my own things, hobbies n whatnot?
 

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well it seems he does not want to lose you - but have you written down
what it was that lead you to split up ? you did not put up much of a fight
when you gave up your night with friends. You may need those friends again
- I think 64 is a warning that the precocious young fox gets its tail wet (dont
know line 3) I do know that relationships loop back to where they were quickly.

50 is new start are you creating the relationship you want? do you want comitment
for example engagement - now's the time to get it.
 

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just checked on LiSe line 3 is about problems due to lack of
attention - you and your bf could be back to square 1 if you
dont understand that you are laying foundations for how the
relationship will continue and be in the future.

for example he now knows that if he asks for a cuddle and
quizzes you when you want to go out independently - he can
get you to reverse/back down. This isnt a judgement - you
are creating your life ding/ that which gives your life meaning.
 

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Hmm you are so right hopex
and that's right about writing down our problems.. Ive been meaning to do that.

considering this relationship, i have another "issue" to discuss that im quite unhappy about.
I will start a new thread.
 

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just checked on LiSe line 3 is about problems due to lack of
attention - you and your bf could be back to square 1 if you
dont understand that you are laying foundations for how the
relationship will continue and be in the future.

for example he now knows that if he asks for a cuddle and
quizzes you when you want to go out independently - he can
get you to reverse/back down. This isnt a judgement - you
are creating your life ding/ that which gives your life meaning.

well put, I think it stresses on you to keep things structured - looks like it is down to you to lay down the laws;) and watch over the progress.
 

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:brickwall:hmmm me and my ex bf broke up four weeks ago and things r ok right now.. ive been trying to be really nice and respectful. i got up early today and made breakfast for us.. then we had lunch together and we were watching a movie and he asked if he could come cuddle with me.. its confusing becuz weve been giving each other space buut.. what up with the cuddling?
so i asked the yi, why does he do this? with the cuddling and stuff?


im really confused..

me too like I said in the other thread theres a contradiction in this sentence. You broke up 4 weeks ago then got up nice and early to make him breakfast :confused:

of course you are confused....this isn't an ex if you get up in the same house and cook him breakfast and he texts you when hes late home

:confused:
 

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haha well we still love each other.. i was trying to be nice because things havent been so good between us lately. we talked a couple nights ago tho and i found out he does want to work on this. so were npot officially together but kind of? lol
anyways we still live together becuz i was in school and had to stay in the city til i was done. im going back home next week tho.
 

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