An anonymous stalker/harasser for over a year, three different questions.

[musicmusic]

Hello everyone,
First of all, sorry for the long post, here I go.
So for some context, for over a year now I have a stalker/harasser going after me online. This person slanders me through multiple facebook, instagram and blogs on wordpress. They seemed to have tracked everything they could about me through the internet (which is very little, since I don't even use my name on FB), constantly asking for my address to all my friends and other info. They disappear for a bit, only to reappear with more accounts later. The last one they made, scared me a little - they used the name and pictures of a friend of mine who passed like 5 years ago from cancer. The account would post things like "Mom don't miss me, I'm coming back", "I love you mom, but I am happy being dead", it would claim to know where they could find me, and mentioned my father and mother by name and that they had info on them, they also threatened my friend.
Moodwise I am constantly shifting from "who cares, it's just an obsessed person online, who found a way to get attention from me and anyone who knows me or who cares to gossip" to "I am worried and I feel scared, what if this person is really insane and never stops doing this, or even worse is really hunting me in real life?" Last year, I went to the police but things did not go well, they seem to not think this is serious and are very slow about doing anything. Basically the investigation got stuck at "Oh, sorry you were assigned the wrong investigator, please re-file your request." So I am pretty confused as to what to do, should I just let it die out, should I actively try to find out who this is, should I move to a different city?
Well the three questions I asked were:
1: Should I be afraid? I got 45.4.5
45 is gathering together. Who to gather with? It mentions seeing a great man and being ready for the unforeseen. This leaves me feeling I should feel afraid or at least prepare for more attacks from my harasser. The great man? not sure who or what this is. Not sure how to interpret 2 changing lines (4 and 5) I usually keep only the first, but in this case I don't feel it's adequate. In any case, the fourth line seems to suggest I let things run their course and not act.
2: Who is this person, will they harm me? I got 39.3.4
So this is an obstacle a difficulty. The two changing lines (3 and 4)suggest turning because the impasse cannot be overcome. At first I interpreted hexagram 39 as the person stopping their harassement (and therefore me not having to worry too much) but then I thought about it more and it made more sense they are an obstacle to me, or an obstacle within myself (like being afraid) and this calls to returning to myself and not trying to change whats outside.
3: How can I stop them? I got 51 unchanging
This means shock. Does this mean I should go up in arms and use all my resources and shock them with my abilities. Does this mean they will continue to shock me and won't be stopped? Or does it mean I should shock myself, confront my fears with myself and not worry about this outward situation and rather finish the projects I am working on (I feel very interrupted and can't seem to focus on my projects)?

Looking forward to any interpretations you may have on any of the 3 questions, at the moment I am too biased to be clear. In any case, I also feel my questions maybe were not the best.

 

[marybluesky]

Hello;

1: Should I be afraid? I got 45.4.5? No. The type of communication is absurd and lacks trust, however it leads to nothing important.

2: Who is this person, will they harm me? I got 39.3.4 They seem to have a personal problem with you but all they do is to meet you halfway in those online gatherings, then return.

3: How can I stop them? I got 51 unchanging By showing a firm, sudden reaction.

 

[Trojina]

It's good to write in the relating hexagram as the reading is not complete without it

So 45.4.5>2
39.3.4>45

So 45 has come up twice and 45 is to do with gathering your resources up against times of trouble, can be to do with focusing in on something, gathering of attention or resources to one place

Also you cannot IMO deal with such a question solely by Yi interpretation, you have to use all your ordinary senses and powers of deduction too and in a sense that is what 45 points to.

Stop thinking of this as some vague threat out there and hone in on this person, really examine them and see if there is anything you can recognise. I say this as the first thing I thought of, nothing to do with the reading, is that this could be someone you actually know in real life who is playing games with you. They might be asking questions like they don't know you but I feel they do know you. That's my instinct alone but I can also make the reading fit. If you already know this person or have known this person in some capacity then you need to concentrate your attention on those you know not those you don't.

Well the three questions I asked were:
1: Should I be afraid? I got 45.4.5
45 is gathering together. Who to gather with? It mentions seeing a great man and being ready for the unforeseen. This leaves me feeling I should feel afraid or at least prepare for more attacks from my harasser. The great man? not sure who or what this is. Not sure how to interpret 2 changing lines (4 and 5) I usually keep only the first, but in this case I don't feel it's adequate. In any case, the fourth line seems to suggest I let things run their course and not act.

Yes I'm with your thought processes here, I do think 45 is suggesting you start to focus on this, give it your attention. Does their writing style remind you of anyone ? It could be someone you knew years ago who you unintentionally made feel inadequate or something ? The fact this changes to 2 makes me feel this is no big mystery, it's kind of there for you to discover. Also I feel you could do some research through old connections, old friends, maybe people you knew from other towns, other places ?

This answer doesn't say you should be afraid but it does say you could possibly crack this if you can gather evidence, if you can call on your old friends, think about past connections. I do think this is something you need to tell your friends about as they could help you piece this together (line 4) I think line 5 points to that feeling of helplessness. I think you could take this in hand and nail that person. So much can be found just through writing style...and I think this answer shows that no you don't just wait you become super sleuth and reveal that person.

2: Who is this person, will they harm me? I got 39.3.4
So this is an obstacle a difficulty. The two changing lines (3 and 4)suggest turning because the impasse cannot be overcome. At first I interpreted hexagram 39 as the person stopping their harassement (and therefore me not having to worry too much) but then I thought about it more and it made more sense they are an obstacle to me, or an obstacle within myself (like being afraid) and this calls to returning to myself and not trying to change whats outside.

I think it's someone from the past, maybe someone you didn't notice much. If it's a description of the person as you asked for I'd say it was someone struggling but actually I don't think answers come like that, I think it's describing your attempts to deal with this. You are trying to do it too much alone, you need to talk to people from your past as that's where this person is coming from. You need to gather resources to make an actual 'arrest' so to speak - name them. The moving lines say you need to rethink this from a whole different angle which involves changing whereabouts you perceive this person to exist.

As for harm they absolutely are already harming you, you are under threat which is not acceptable and the person needs exposing.

(you might also think of people you have know who actually do limp or struggle to walk...just an idea if we take 39 literally as describing a person)

You said

Moodwise I am constantly shifting from "who cares, it's just an obsessed person online, who found a way to get attention from me and anyone who knows me or who cares to gossip" to "I am worried and I feel scared, what if this person is really insane and never stops doing this, or even worse is really hunting me in real life?

I don't think you can carry on thinking it's just an obsessed person online. That person may be a lot closer to home, you may have already met them at some point.

At first I interpreted hexagram 39 as the person stopping their harassement (and therefore me not having to worry too much) but then I thought about it more and it made more sense they are an obstacle to me, or an obstacle within myself (like being afraid) and this calls to returning to myself and not trying to change whats outside.

But the outside needs changing, the outside must change. if someone is repeatedly kicking you in the shins you can't 'return to yourself' until they have stopped.

You got 39.3.4>45 change your focus, broaden your perspective over who the culprit may be and of course gather evidence which you probably already have. If you do go back to police you need all the evidence. However you also need friends on your side who can help with the thinking.

3: How can I stop them? I got 51 unchanging
This means shock. Does this mean I should go up in arms and use all my resources and shock them with my abilities. Does this mean they will continue to shock me and won't be stopped? Or does it mean I should shock myself, confront my fears with myself and not worry about this outward situation and rather finish the projects I am working on (I feel very interrupted and can't seem to focus on my projects)?

I think it's a heartening answer, this will shake you up inside but it will also push you to act decisively. It may also shock you when you find out who it is. Is there anyone you have in mind who has crossed your mind 'it might be them but it can't possibly be ' ? Remember 51 actually says to not be afraid when the thunder comes, don't let it destabilise you and don't drop the sacred ladle. I think you can 'do' this.