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an update on my romantic soap opera: 14.2.4.5.6 - 63

WanderingNick

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I thought you might all appreciate an up date on this romantic saga.

After my girlfriend ended things with me back in December, we didnt see each other or speak for two months. Last weekend, we met up in order to hand back various posessions of ours to each other. I thought the meeting would be short and painful. It wasnt. We ended up talking for five hours over a bottle of wine. It was really unexpected and we got along amazingly well (we always have). In the end I said I needed to go so headed off. Having spent the best part of two months trying to forget her and move on, I ended up feeling that I still wanted her back.

So I did a reading: "Tell me what approach, if any, will get her back".
I was prepared for it to say 'no direction furthers', but instead I got:
Great Possession -14.2.4.5.6, changing to 63 (Already Across).
I always struggle to interpret things when there are so many moving lines, but this seemed like a positive reading:
Line 2 - 'with a direction to go, no mistake'
Line 4 - 'not for you to dominate' (ie she comes of her own free will ?)
Line 5 'your truth interacts strikes awe - good fortune' (she love me for who I am?)
Line 6 'from heaven comes help and protection, Good fortune, nothing that does not bear fruit' (This freaked me out a bit)

Any thoughts in this never ending soap opera would be mightily appreciated and thanks as always to those who give their interpretations!
 

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Also good to ask two questions: "should I attempt to win her back" and the inverse "should I move on" before thinking of how.
As for your question; inner richness (yours and the relationship) creates it's own law of attraction so depending on how she feels that would be a factor here in any decisionto restart a relationship. The action of your first hexagram has spilled over into hex 63 so using Zhu Xi's rules you can read the first line of Hexagram 63 which suggest caution in a correct advance.
So without knowing more it would be nice perhaps to send her a message saying thank you for the nice time and how it reminded you of how well you both used to get along and that it would be nice to grab a drink again at some future time.
 

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Thank you Win_Po, that’s a really good point. Asking ‘should I seek to rekindle the relationship’ is a really good question. It all seems to point to
my needing to be centred in myself, valuing myself and seeing if she values what I am rather than blindly chasing after her
 

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Also good to ask two questions: "should I attempt to win her back" and the inverse "should I move on" before thinking of how.
As for your question; inner richness (yours and the relationship) creates it's own law of attraction so depending on how she feels that would be a factor here in any decisionto restart a relationship. The action of your first hexagram has spilled over into hex 63 so using Zhu Xi's rules you can read the first line of Hexagram 63 which suggest caution in a correct advance.
So without knowing more it would be nice perhaps to send her a message saying thank you for the nice time and how it reminded you of how well you both used to get along and that it would be nice to grab a drink again at some future time.
So I took your advice and asked ‘should I try to get back together with her?’ To which I got 50, unchanging (The Cauldron)... which again seems a positive reading . Hmmm
 

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