Another relationship question - 13.1.3 to 12

[Lettuce]

I asked the question ‘will myself and x end up together?’ and my answer was 13.1.3 to 12. We are at present not together. My take is that we had a connection, albeit a superficial one. Obstructions arose and distrust in one another and now there is nothing left of our relationship. Does anyone have any other take. It appears to be reflecting my current situation as opposed to telling me what nay happen in the future. Or maybe hex 12, stagnation is reflecting the future.Any additional input would be appreciated. Thank you all in advance for any input

 

[Trojina]

Someone needs to break the stalemate in line 3 for anything to change. 12 as the context shows there is no communication really happening.

I think 13 as a whole would show a situation where you are part of the same community/town/groups and you can still get along together as friends looking at line 1. Maybe you didn't get very far past being friends in line before the mistrust set in in line.

Line 3 can show both parties seeking to gain an advantage without revealing their intentions and that's a situation that's going nowhere. So if you want it to change I'd think you'd need to go to somewhere he hangs out (line 1) and talk to him, open up (line 3) to shift the block between you. Of course that doesn't guarantee a happy outcome but it's better than not knowing.. I note there's very different ways to view line 3 also with some commentaries saying not to seek higher ground, not engage. But you didn't get 33 you got quite a social answer hence it seems a good idea to undo the 12 by going out into the world where he is, where people who know him are and mingle. If you get the chance to speak to him don't play games, be honest.


As an answer to your question, you are asking for a hard prediction, there isn't one to give as the future is not set in stone. For the certainty you want there is only person to go to and that is him. You can go to psychics, readers, and all kinds of things and you won't get an answer to this. People can make stuff up and get it right a lot of the time but they don't really know whether you will end up with your ex. At least I don't.

 

[Lettuce]

You really are an amazing and an incredibly Insightful I Ching reader. I would never have seen the reading that way. Many thanks! Most importantly, you are helping me gain a deeper understanding of how the I Ching works. We work together so that probably explains hex 13, right?

 

[Lettuce]

All you said was totally accurate Trojina

 

[Lettuce]

As an updateI’d just like to say Trojina you were spot on. We were in a stalemate and there was a communication block between us. I did as the hex suggested, I started to open up and communicate and the block has slowly shifted where now we can talk freely and there is no hindrance. Whether it goes anywhere is still uncertain but there is promise.

 

[Lettuce]

As an updateI’d just like to say Trojina you were spot on. We were in a stalemate and there was a communication block between us. I did as the hex suggested, I started to open up and communicate and the block has slowly shifted where now we can talk freely and there is no hindrance. Whether it goes anywhere is still uncertain but there is promise.

 

[Trojina]

That's really good news and thank you so much for updating us.


Updating is not only helpful for those who replied but is also useful for others in years to come when they consult the archives for the same cast.


:bows:

 

[Lettuce]

i just stumbled upon this reading and i felt to update further. Communication continued and we remained in good terms but i decided not to take it any further though the opportunity did present itself. i hope this helps anyone gain clarity on this reading