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monkey

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Hello All,

I've been snooping around this lovely site for awhile in an attempt to gather some information about the i-ching.

Anyway, I have a relationship dilemma that I hope someone could help me find some peace about. I had been having trouble formulating a question when i came across a members list of four questions regarding a relationship. These question seemed perfect for getting at what I wanted to understand. I'm not sure the etiquette of all of this, but if someone wouldn't mind helping I would very much appreciate it.

What is the general diagnosis of the relationship: Received 23.5.6 changing to 8

What is my position in this relationship: Received 20.1.2.5 changing to 41

What is his position in this relationship: Received 56.1.4 changing to 22

What action can I take in this relationship: Received 61.3 changing to 9.

Thanks!
 

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"What is the general diagnosis of the relationship: Received 23.5.6 changing to 8"

Hex 23.5 the situation has not been good but it is slowly starting to change for the better, it suggests that the two of you should get along now, well, at least better than before.

Hex 23.6 the better times are coming around once again. The wheel is on the upturn, you know the problems so it is up to you to deal with them.

Hex 8 this is about holding together, join together for the common good of the relationship. This is the right thing to do.


"What is my position in this relationship: Received 20.1.2.5 changing to 41"

Hex 20.1 you see the problems in this relationship but you have failed to do anything about them, its like you don't want to understand the difficulties involved.

Hex 20.2 you are only seeing the problems from a narrow viewpoint, you have to see things from his side as well.

Hex 20.5 so you have to contemplate the situation and yourself to see if you have made any mistakes, if you have then deal with them.

Hex 41 you will have to make a sacrifice for the greater good of the relationship, first by keeping still, not giving way to emotional outbursts, reduce your involvement, play hard to get and not throw yourself at him.

"What is his position in this relationship: Received 56.1.4 changing to 22"

Hex 56.1 he is busying himself with very unimportant matters and this most likely annoys you. He is not being responsible.

Hex 56.4 he looks on you as a permanent fixture, but in his heart he is ill at ease and insecure.

Hex 22 he tries to charm his way out of the small problems but he can do nothing about the major underlying problems.

"What action can I take in this relationship: Received 61.3 changing to 9."

Hex 61.3 at the moment your emotions and feelings are up and down like a yo-yo, you have no balance in this relationship. First, you must get yourself back on an even keel, get your emotions back under control.

Hex 9 for the moment nothing much can be done to solve the problems that you have, you can only chip away at them bit by bit. Not too worry though because the future does hold the prospect of success, so slowly prepare yourself.
 

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Such a quick response.

Thanks, that really helped.

I haven't known this guy for very long, but I feel such a strong potential for this becoming a meaningful connection not just some guy I dated for awhile. I have a looming fear that I will loose him--- the whole situation is very tentative---sensitive. I have never been very good at having patience, or letting situations slowly evolve. I want things to happen now :) I do feel this relationship will slowly grow . The thing is how do I achieve the correct balance of doing just enough without loosing the connection all together and have both of us drift away?

Anyway..... I will definitely use your answers as a study tool. Read through the translations and lines. Very helpful....Thank you Thank you

Lian
 

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You have to be self reliant, with stable thoughts and in possession of self confidence. And patience.
 

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