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simon_uk said:Interesting stuff. If not a little too deep for me.
However ti will be very difficult for me to apply any of this knowledge if we are not together.
Thanks for taking the time Chris
SImon
simon_uk said:Thanks Chris
I dont know how I am going to go about rewooing if I never see her and have no intention of contacting her.
I would love to contact her but I think it will push her away further. Besides I want her to come back to me because hse wants to not because I have influenced that decision.
Hope that makes sense?
lightofreason said:Ummmm.....Send her a flower. A single rose. No card. It just means 'I am still here' and is not 'overwhelming' ;-) - subtle wooing ;-) - reflects 56 - another mountain based hexagram covering loyalty at a distance.... and then there is 53 with its focus on maturing, gradual progress.
If your serious then do that once a week until you are notified 'go away' or else she turns up to talk. The emotional thread needs to be maintained 'in reality' in some way - otherwise it becomes all 'head' stuff - imagination at work.
That said I may be being very wrong ( I am too preoccupied to date these days so my skills have dropped off or are 'old fashioned' perhaps? ;-)) so get some of the females here to help ;-)
lightofreason So -- you are attracted to the same type of woman? History repeats? - or is your method in chasing at fault and so the 'push away' applies to all women? [/QUOTE said:I think my method in chasing as been at fault in the past and no I dont think it applies to all women. I think it applies to all people regardless of sex. If somebody is retreating by pursuing that person you cause them to treat more. That is my belief and my experience.
lightofreason said:Ummmm.....Send her a flower. A single rose. No card. It just means 'I am still here' and is not 'overwhelming' ;-) - subtle wooing ;-) - reflects 56 - another mountain based hexagram covering loyalty at a distance.... and then there is 53 with its focus on maturing, gradual progress.
If your serious then do that once a week until you are notified 'go away' or else she turns up to talk. The emotional thread needs to be maintained 'in reality' in some way - otherwise it becomes all 'head' stuff - imagination at work.
I think I will stick to my current method of not pursuing. It hasnt helped any but it hasnt done any harm either. If in doubt, do nothing.
lightofreason said:That said I may be being very wrong ( I am too preoccupied to date these days so my skills have dropped off or are 'old fashioned' perhaps? ;-)) so get some of the females here to help ;-)
Chris.
As I said I think I will just stick to my current method for the time being. At least until I gain more clarity and further rejection wont harm me so much. I will consult the Yi as suggested elsewhere and see what that brings.
Simon
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).