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Any marital affairs? Hex 5 changing line 2

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Need desperate help in interpretating this. I asked I Ching whether this year my husband will have any peach blossom(affair) and I got Hex 5 line 2.

I know I asked this question is because of my fear and insecurity. He may not do that. I am just afraid , afraid to trust him. I didn't dare to let him know how I feel and I really want to get an answer. Any answer to allay my fear. But this hex 5 is about waiting. About nourishment. Does it mean an affair is waiting to occur under nourishment?
 

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I don't know if this helps, I'm not an expert, it's from http://www.yijing.nl:
line 2: Waiting on the sandbank. There is some talk. The completion is auspicious.
Don't blindly follow the ideas or comments of other people, but stick to your own judgment. If you don't know, then wait until you do. Make your own decisions, whatever anyone advises you. It is your life, if you enter the river because someone else tells you it is safe, it is you who eventually drowns.
 
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"Will my husband will have an affair?"

Asking the Yi to predict such a thing is not a good idea in my opinion, not at all. To my way of thinking it shows a lack of self awareness and a need for serious introspection. But anyway.

5.2
He has been showing self restraint as he waits, although he been a little damaged by other people speaking badly about him. He will have good fortune eventually. Before this line makes you too happy, "waiting" could mean waiting to see what is going to happen in your relationship. As you have expressed here an obvious lack of faith and trust in the man, which is what a marriage requires, it does not sound like it is going well. In this situation, he is wondering what your commitment is and what you are going to decide to do.

Changes to 60 Limitation
He is keeping himself in bounds, but he is thinking about what the virtuous way to deal with the situation is.

It sounds to me overall like he has not done wrong, but you have acted in a way which could result in you losing him.

Get counseling or something, or really change your heart, unless you are just seeking to get out of the marriage while laying all the blame on him.
 

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Need desperate help in interpreting this. I asked I Ching whether this year my husband will have any peach blossom(affair) and I got Hex 5 line 2.

Hexagram 5 is about providing for our needs. In answer to your question, Yi says he will be inclined to wait this year, not to have an affair.

5.2 changes to 63.

He would be okay with waiting.

I hope this brings some ease to your mind ...

It's true what Lavalamp said, however, that it's not good practice to ask Yi when we know the person. It's like using the I Ching to spy on your husband. However, there are times in marriages when the people are not communicating or there is a taboo on certain subjects.
 
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