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Hello everybody!!
I had a crazy night with an old flame that I met for the first time after 15 years. Note that we met as friends let's say. We drunk so much that I don't remember the second half of the night, except some details. a particular detail worries me the most. I remember him say to me "behave!" three times. The problem is that I don't remember what I did to make him say 'behave' and I feel quite embarrassed ...
So I ask the yi for help...
Q1 When he said behave did I try to kiss him? 57 unchanged

Q2 or did try to caress him? 10.2->25
(oh god i am getting embarrassed here too :blush: :blush: :blush:)

Q3 I don't understand what did I do? 18.2->52

I need your help to get an idea so I will be able to confront him with a hint at least!!!
 
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maybe by mistake started a thread in the wrong place?
 

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Naw, not a mistake to post it, but a little awkward to try and interpret it without projecting our own imagination into it, I think. And it may be moved to Shared Readings if moderation deems it a better place.

I've said "behave" to a woman before, but it was said in a teasing way, as though to imply she was being naughty while I was a perfect gentleman. Ha! But it was always said so lightly, it received little more than a giggle or laugh from the woman.

Maybe he meant it as a tease, to see if it would draw a reaction from you, and what kind. I could link that to 57. To make an impression is akin to a seal and to wind.
 
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Thanks meng for spending time to reply!!
I was thinking the same, that 57 is somewhat a positive answer! But I needed an opinion from a more experienced member because sometimes hexagrams or moving lines can be linked with body parts :D

Sorry but I didn't understand the following phrase :To make an impression is akin to a seal and to wind.
You see English is not my native language.

But I do remember him say 'behave" three times so he obviously wanted me to stop. Sure we were in public but I sense it was more than that.
18.2 is about excessive protectiveness which sounds strange. Protect me from himself? Or Yi is referring to me and that I make it a big deal and I don't need to correct the situation!!

And I think you are a perfect gentleman... ;)
 
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Thanks meng for spending time to reply!!
I was thinking the same, that 57 is somewhat a positive answer! But I needed an opinion from a more experienced member because sometimes hexagrams or moving lines can be linked with body parts :D

Sorry but I didn't understand the following phrase :To make an impression is akin to a seal and to wind.
You see English is not my native language.

But I do remember him say 'behave" three times so he obviously wanted me to stop. Sure we were in public but I sense it was more than that.
18.2 is about excessive protectiveness which sounds strange. Protect me from himself? Or Yi is referring to me and that I make it a big deal and I don't need to correct the situation!!

And I think you are a perfect gentleman... ;)

I'd trust your gut feeling over my experience.

Have to chuckle, because the explicitness you're looking for, I'm trying to avoid. Ok, but if I'm banned for an X-rating, I'm blaming you!

Sun/Xun Wind is also Wood, and my edited out comment had to do with using wood to make an impression. Actually this thread made me think of the word 'impression' to describe 57, and how it fits with LiSe's Seal and to the impressive nature of wind. The Seal is as a seal on wax to seal a document, and wood makes an impression upon what is soft, as wind makes an impression upon what is hard. Referring to wind's effect on mountains, but if other images work better for you, that's cool.
 

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Ok!! you made me chuckle too!!! Message received!!
But I don't believe you will be banned because you put it soooo smart!!! clever diviner!!!
It is only a few years that I try to translate yi myself and I think I have a long way ahead of me to accomplish a decent level of understanding hexesand their changes.

I received an other answer the same one for two different questions (or not so different) so I believe this is quite important.
The first one asked at an earlier date is "Should I end this contact?"
And the second one today "What do you think is best for me to do?"
And I received at both instances 61,1,2-> 20

Now 61.2 refer to something or someone that give me guidance and protection, maybe yi maybe meng and this forum or else. It's true that a friend of mine see the whole story end up fairly well that is us together and an other thinks that my behavior (hangover and the rest) upset my friend and will not want to see me again.

and 61.2 is about a true soul-level connection as I see it on Wiki Wing. That one surprise me because I ask to end this contact. I though this as the yi advises me not end this contact and try to deepen the connection. If you think that 15 tears passed since I saw him and I haven't forgotten him and It appears that he hasn't either then there is a connection for sure. What would be the result I don't know!!!

Now 20 -> wait and see?

What do you think?

Meng thank you for trying to enlighten me and please don't think the above question is personally for you!
 

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Now 20 -> wait and see?

What do you think?

That's what Yi is asking you.

:)

61.2 is a strong line. There are threads on it here, and of course not all agree on every detail. If you believe in the idea of karma, there's a likeliness of karmic connection, but from my experience, it can be bittersweet. Though the calls go out and are answered, it doesn't mean that the cup they share will be in the same zip code.
 

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Sorry for my late reply!!
I was out of town for a few days.
There is a a sense of karma in this story with this guy from the first glance we laid at each other 15 years ago but the story did not unfold as it sounds.
I read other threads about 61.2.I hate bittersweet feelings but I know what you mean meng. The overall sense of the relationship is bittersweet.
For the time being I am trying to get control over my emotions and be calm and let the story take it 's natural course. I have a good feeling about this but honestly I can't imagine the outcome (setting aside my hopes).
Anyway thanks again .. a lot :hug:
This is for you
http://youtu.be/1lyu1KKwC74 :)
And I promise to update as I wished for others to do!!!
 
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