Attitudes

[precision grace]

I've deleted my original message as I don't think anyone will want to help me look a this. I've copied it all over to my computer so I can study it myself there.

If anyone is curious, it was about asking what other people felt about me and getting a lot of versions of 19.

Sorry for the bother.

 

[ginnie]

You're being naughty ... tsk tsk tsk

 

[goddessliss]

Hey Grace - it is never any bother. People on this forum make their choice to interpret for others or not....

It think Hex 19 in this situation is others would like to get to know you and it would be beneficial for you to allow this to happen. You don't have to be best friends but even strangers can help us along our way sometimes.
You know the story of our partner trying to tell us something and we don't hear them or we don't want to listen and then a stranger may say the same thing to us and we hear them......
I shielded myself from others for a long, long time but continually worked on my own issues and took self responsibility and now I am a confident happy woman. I think in another post I already spoke about this - it takes time but it really is beneficial to let others help. - LIss

 

[pocossin]

I've deleted my original message as I don't think anyone will want to help me look a this. I've copied it all over to my computer so I can study it myself there.

If anyone is curious, it was about asking what other people felt about me and getting a lot of versions of 19.

Sorry for the bother.

Ah, PG. Sorry I missed the original before you deleted it. I'll tell you anything -- provided I am not under oath not to speak. I feel a special responsibility for you because I am the the one (I think) who by discussing your blog persuaded you that we at Clarity are not a school of piranha and led to your welcomed participation. I have repeated gotten into trouble by saying what I think, but I am too old and set in my ways to change. So if you want my frank observations on yourself and won't go ballistic, just ask.

 

[dancing white ferret]

Hi PG! I read your original post yesterday, but didn't have a chance to reply til now. Anyway, 54 there might simply be pointing out that someone better may come along. Perhaps he is 54 for you. I see why you would read 19>54 as you put in your original post. Could be. But this line seems fortunate, and sounds like you have the potential to gain importance in this person's life if you take advantage of the opportunity. 19.4 suggests to me that he does not see you as part of his immediate circle, but would welcome a closer connection. Is that possible? How do you know this person? Is there some kind of difference is social status?

Anyway, I've received a lot of 19 in relation to this kind of questioning before. How does X feel about me questions, that is. I think in my case, the I Ching was addressing my basic desire for companionship. If this were my reading, I would read 19 as pointing to the approach of a true companion. To me, it suggests you have not met this person yet. I think both readings may be drawing your attention to this potential, and are giving you a heads up for someone coming your way. Line 4 suggests a step up in rank. Maybe he's got money, PG! Always a nice plus... 54, as I'd read it here, suggests you are not currently in a great position. Line 4 sounds like that will change somehow. Could simply mean your status will change later. Maybe right now you are just in a 54 phase of life, just not in a great position to start up a relationship. Or maybe just not in a great position to undertake anything new. All you can do is be adaptable, and wait for a change... Maybe there are other priorities right now, other things that need to be done to prepare you for the real deal, which it sounds like is trying to make it's way to you. Could be. 19>2 reads to me as their is ground to grow in, and time is of the essence. Line 2 reads to me like a warning not to be confused by the ups and downs in life's cycles. I read this as, you are heading in the right direction. Do not be discouraged. 2 also suggests to me creativity. I would read this as a time to start creating what I want in my life, being more creative, and maintaining receptivity. There is the potential in life to build right now. Sounds to me like a reminder that the right companion will find his way to you, but now is a time to create. Anyway, this is how I would read this if it were my reading. Hope that helps.

 

[precision grace]

Ah, PG. Sorry I missed the original before you deleted it. I'll tell you anything -- provided I am not under oath not to speak. I feel a special responsibility for you because I am the the one (I think) who by discussing your blog persuaded you that we at Clarity are not a school of piranha and led to your welcomed participation. I have repeated gotten into trouble by saying what I think, but I am too old and set in my ways to change. So if you want my frank observations on yourself and won't go ballistic, just ask.

haha! um I always welcome your observations pocossin even if they may not be what I want to hear I cannot promise not to go ballistic, though. What was that story about the scorpion and his nature... heh heh

Btw thank you for your warm welcome and thanks to your investigations and promotion, my blog is read more than once a year by a googlebot.

 

[precision grace]

Thanks dwf!! and I didn't mean to sound self-pitying, I just looked the the two posts (I made another one yesterday just before I deleted both) and it all suddenly looked way to self indulgent.

I appreciate your take on 19.4 very much, because this guy and 19.1.2. one are the ones confusing me the most. I definitely don't belong in their 'inner circle' and not sure that I ever could although I would like to as I like all of them A Lot. I also received 19 about other people in this group too which is weird. 19.3 for another young guy and 19 unchanging for our boss. What you say about getting 19 in the past for these types of questions is very helpful because it shows that it is a general standard, not just something personal to me.

I have a feeling that 19.4 thought in the beginning that he might be interested in me but it then became obvious I didn't fit in with his expectations - hence 54. There is definitely a difference in rank if you choose to look at it that way but I have seen no evidence of riches lol. There can be Huuuuge chemistry between us occasionally, although most times it's safely kept in check.

19.1.2. and I work on projects together sometimes and we work really well together but our boss (19) is currently getting in the way of a large project we are very excited about to get going with. Because 19.1.2 is so young, I never really know where he is coming from and whether he genuinely enjoys talking to me or is pretending to because we need to get along for work. Also, there is a tiny bit of chemistry there too which makes me feel super uncomfortable because he is so young. It always reminds of the time in school, when we were about 7 or 8 and our teacher used to wear this really heady perfume and we would get really giddy being around her which felt nice and wrong all at the same time.
I think 19.1.2 tells of genuine interest although it still doesn't specify what form this relationship should take but it does sort of seem like just going along with things as they are is probably the best solution.

Funny you should say about true companion coming my way. I was told this recently by a psychic. And when I asked if it would be a new person, someone I haven't met yet, she said not necessarily, it's more that you will be in the right frame of mind.. (what goddessliss said in her post basically)

It's interesting that you are reading 19.4 --> 54 as applying to me whereas I was reading it purely as if was his reading about me. We are totally allowed to do that. It says in the manual

 

[precision grace]

OK so this rank thing has got me a bit worried (because I don't care about such stuff but I think he does) so I asked What is the rank situation between A and I and received 64.5.6 > 47
Well, if anyone is unaware of what the 'proper regulations are' or indeed unwilling to submit to them, that would be me. Anyone who expects me to do what is expected will have to wait a long time.

so I ask, what attitude should I adopt towards A and got 11 unchanging.

It is at this point, where I find myself having to ask Yi all these questions because people themselves are not making it easy for me to ask them personally that I start to think to myself: This is SO Not Worth it.