awful situation 59.6 &30.3

[kestrelw1ngs]

in a crisis. ex is planning to leave for a trip early tomorrow morning (in a few hours). I went to the grocery store, but needed to borrow her wallet as my cards are lost. she allowed me with explicit request NOT to lose it.

was that some kind of curse?
because as soon as I got home I realized it was no longer in my pocket.
drove back and forth to the store, crawled down the aisles, looked in the car, shoppong carts,, every shopping bag. nothing.

This is horrific. She has been planning this trip for months, worked ahead in school for it and now I doubt will be able to get into the concert, or even drive over there. its been a huge cause of stress for her and she is very excited.....she's sleeping right now. I have a few more hours before Hell on earth.

SO I asked yi:

"Please tell me where X's wallet is"

30.3>21

And as that seemed more like a description of the situation that will unfold when she finds out, and my stress, I asked again

"Where can I find X's wallet?"

59.6>29

good lord. it seems its time to face the music, or run away.

I'll update thread if I live to see another day.

posting on the off chance these can be interpreted as places to look? I've seen people have success before locating lost objects with Yi.

I've gotten 59.6 before right before a huge fight, so.....we can pray

 

[Trojina]

Try this.

Relax for a moment in the bathroom or somewhere

Close your eyes and ask for just an image of the thing this object is near.

I find I will see a colour or another object and then I go to where that is and that is often where the object is.

Also you have asked at the grocery store haven't you? You need to ask as it may have been handed in.

It could well look as if was done 'accidentally on purpose' to your ex, you know to sabotage her trip so I think you better run for cover...I personally would kill you. Sorry.

30.3 can imply worry over nothing, thinking things are doomed when there's still time. So calm down, allow images to come in the bathroom. Did you go in any bathrooms? I have left wallets in the toilet before now. Did you stop anywhere for a pee?

 

[kestrelw1ngs]

Try this.

Relax for a moment in the bathroom or somewhere

Close your eyes and ask for just an image of the thing this object is near.

I find I will see a colour or another object and then I go to where that is and that is often where the object is.

Also you have asked at the grocery store haven't you? You need to ask as it may have been handed in.

It could well look as if was done 'accidentally on purpose' to your ex, you know to sabotage her trip so I think you better run for cover...I personally would kill you. Sorry.

30.3 can imply worry over nothing, thinking things are doomed when there's still time. So calm down, allow images to come in the bathroom. Did you go in any bathrooms? I have left wallets in the toilet before now. Did you stop anywhere for a pee?

I personally would kill me too! It very much does seem like sabotage. Ugh.

I will try that technique.

at this point updating mostly for future reference in case its found because I doubt it will be in time to prevent a problem. But I'm staying up to try and problem solve. grocery store clerks were of no help, yes I did go back, twice! No stops in a bathroom, but I had to run back in after getting to the car since I had forgotten something inside.

I asked:
"Yi is is possible to find the wallet?"
21.1>35

and
"Yi how should I approach this situation?"

31.1.5>55

both readings mention the feet or toes so that is interesting.
putting on shoes. Perhaps its on the ground somewhere...

21.1 could also be about accepting the punishment for my carelessness?

Thanks for the quick response Trojina!

 

[kestrelw1ngs]

I asked one more time because I could not get an image, too stressed,
"Yi can I have an image of where the wallet is?"
24.1.6>23

I think its really gone.

 

[Trojina]

Yes lots of foot stuff! Feet in stocks, 21.1 you're held still for your own good

31.1 influence in the toes


Suggests to me going very carefully over the last time you held wallet. When did you last hold it in your hand, presumably when you paid at the store. What would you then have done with it? Would you definitely have put it in your pocket? Try retracing your steps. I know you've done that already but think again.

Is her phone number in the wallet? It should be. Therefore would anybody have rung her phone to say they have it? Check her phone.

Did you use a shopping cart? What about the roof of the car, you may have put it there while you fumbled with something else but that's no comfort as it may have fallen off. If you ran back in as you had forgotten something may you have stuffed the wallet in another shopping bag and have you totally thoroughly searched the floor of the car, under the seats and the side compartments? There is still a good chance it's hidden in plain sight, it does happen. Surely the loss occurred when you ran back in for the thing you forgot, that's when you would have been flustered.


Trying to help I tried to 'see' and saw it in the bottom of a metal shopping cart but that's probably just imagination rather than real 'seeing' at this point. Describe the wallet and I will try to visualise it

 

[kestrelw1ngs]

Yes lots of foot stuff! Feet in stocks, 21.1 you're held still for your own good

31.1 influence in the toes


Suggests to me going very carefully over the last time you held wallet. When did you last hold it in your hand, presumably when you paid at the store. What would you then have done with it? Would you definitely have put it in your pocket? Try retracing your steps. I know you've done that already but think again.

Is her phone number in the wallet? It should be. Therefore would anybody have rung her phone to say they have it? Check her phone.

Did you use a shopping cart? What about the roof of the car, you may have put it there while you fumbled with something else but that's no comfort as it may have fallen off. If you ran back in as you had forgotten something may you have stuffed the wallet in another shopping bag and have you totally thoroughly searched the floor of the car, under the seats and the side compartments? There is still a good chance it's hidden in plain sight, it does happen. Surely the loss occurred when you ran back in for the thing you forgot, that's when you would have been flustered.


Trying to help I tried to 'see' and saw it in the bottom of a metal shopping cart but that's probably just imagination rather than real 'seeing' at this point. Describe the wallet and I will try to visualise it

Thank you Trojina. It is a leather wallet with pink and multi color woven natove covering. Square.

 

[Trojina]

Before you told me that I had red

After I visualised it as you described I got the soft blue sky, the colour of the sky. Somewhere where it is cushioned in blue or near blue sky imagery? It does seem somewhere soft not hard. These are long shots i know but sometimes it works for me. Could it fall through anything like fabric/cushions/scarves

 

[kestrelw1ngs]

Before you told me that I had red

After I visualised it as you described I got the soft blue sky, the colour of the sky. Somewhere where it is cushioned in blue or near blue sky imagery? It does seem somewhere soft not hard. These are long shots i know but sometimes it works for me. Could it fall through anything like fabric/cushions/scarves

Hm. I did change into a sky blue jacket when I came back to the house but....wait. the cashier who checked me out had blue hair, and she left immediately after....wonder if somehow it got mixed in her things?

At any rate worst is over. X woke up threw a bunch of stuff around, etc we looked at the store again looked through all the carts,, and now I owe her the cost of the trip + all replacements for everything in the wallet. Regardless of its found its too late for the trip she already paid for :/

 

[kestrelw1ngs]

I'll update if its found. Thank you so much Trojina

 

[kestrelw1ngs]

Update: so X was able to go on the trip. She was quite abusive about the whole thing, but we were able to replace essentials quickly that morning and she paid me back the money she had demanded later.
A few days later someone knocked on the door with the wallet - they had found it in the parking lot of the store.
No telling if the warm blue space was the strangers bag or home, but the wallet was indeed safe! If temporarily out of our control.

24.1.6>23 I think was more of an emotional message from the Yi that a cycle was completing. The whole scenario gave me some needed emotional closure/reality check to get out of here. No more guilt or fantasy.
There's just too much stress. Nothing is worth going through that again. It brought us both to such a low state.