Beginning to see how strings of questions work, follow up to previous post.

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So once again consulted the vast wisdom of the ages about my potential interest.

How do I get closer received 63.1 to 39.

I then asked what is the obstruction, received 14.3 to 38

and finally how can the obstruction be overcome received 8.2,3,4,5 to 4.


I'm trying to figure out what this is telling me as far as the closer bit goes. Have I already done all that I can and won't go any farther or am I being told that if I choose this route I best be prepared to do so slowly and with purpose? 39 depending who one reads is either find allies or be ready to go it alone or maybe means that my next plan ought to involve more than just her and I. Woo..getting insight mid typing is an interesting feeling.

14 has me a bit confused, the changing line makes me think that I shouldn't make an offer unless I'm VERY serious about doing so. However 14 makes me think of my current project(s). I consistently find something new to do and every time swear it will be the last thing. The 'great possession' if you will. Only when I'm finished with my project can I move onto something new? I can also dare to suggest that her affections would be the great possession? 38 just confuses the crap out of me. Is the entire answer suggesting that I need to dedicate my time and efforts to one thing?

Finally to 8 and 4. 8 being union/unity gives me the idea that I have to bring people together in some way and form. 4 being childhood/youthful folly/ignorance has me lost. She is quite a bit younger but 4 also suggests being able to be taught by the young.

Am I onto anything or more lost now than before?

 

[Tohpol]

Am I onto anything or more lost now than before?

Very quick impressions which seem to be saying more or less what was in your last post:

63.1 > 39

Pull back. Things have already gone past the mark. You gonna cause her and yourself real problems.

14.3 > 38

Stop wanting to possess. Gain something for yourself at the expense of the other might be suggested here. Expand your awareness and gain a higher perspective, other wise you'll get a load of trouble.

8 > 4

Be sociable rather than intimate. Group endeavour. Be willing to learn.

Topal

 

[Trojina]

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14 has me a bit confused, the changing line makes me think that I shouldn't make an offer unless I'm VERY serious about doing so. However 14 makes me think of my current project(s). I consistently find something new to do and every time swear it will be the last thing. The 'great possession' if you will. Only when I'm finished with my project can I move onto something new? I can also dare to suggest that her affections would be the great possession? 38 just confuses the crap out of me. Is the entire answer suggesting that I need to dedicate my time and efforts to one thing?

This has me confused about what the link is between your 'projects' and her. That confusion in how i read it make me think perhaps you see her as a project ? In which case i think the obstruction for you is thinking of her that way. I agree with what Topal said . Don't think of her as a possession to be gained. That attitude blocks you.

 

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My various car projects suck up an immense amount of my time. Each time I complete something I swear it's the last thing just to decide the next day oh time for something new!My most recent endeavor was doing a car computer, I finally get it done (after about a month or so due to waiting on various parts) to decide that I want engine management software. So here comes a new cable to run and an entire new piece of software to learn. Running cables of course is time consuming and the software...well..don't wanna think about this one right now.

I can't disagree with considering her a project, although I want to be a tad more general in considering getting a girlfriend the project.

I'm not sure that pulling back is something I can do, more to the tune of I won't pull back but what's been done has been done. Line 1 based off of many books (Blofeld, Wilhelm, Ni, Huang, Karcher) says to not go forward and if I do so, do it slowly. Karcher specifically says "You have a great connection but are starting too quickly. Hold back. Start slowly. Allow yourself to be lured on. This is not a mistake" I do have the VERY nasty habit of getting way ahead of myself and frequently shooting myself in the foot by doing so. I just happen to be a very 'get it done' kind of person. I even have a feeling now that I think about it what that line specifically may be regarding.

You guys just gave me an ingenious but very warped idea..something her and I can both appriciate. Group endeavor, effing brilliant!!!!

 

[Tohpol]

I can't disagree with considering her a project, although I want to be a tad more general in considering getting a girlfriend the project.

I'm not sure that pulling back is something I can do, more to the tune of I won't pull back but what's been done has been done.

I do have the VERY nasty habit of getting way ahead of myself and frequently shooting myself in the foot by doing so. I just happen to be a very 'get it done' kind of person. I even have a feeling now that I think about it what that line specifically may be regarding.

You guys just gave me an ingenious but very warped idea..something her and I can both appriciate. Group endeavor, effing brilliant!!!!

"I can't disagree with considering her a project.."

That's very clear. Consider what you wrote below:

My various car projects suck up an immense amount of my time. Each time I complete something I swear it's the last thing just to decide the next day oh time for something new!My most recent endeavor was doing a car computer, I finally get it done (after about a month or so due to waiting on various parts) to decide that I want engine management software. So here comes a new cable to run and an entire new piece of software to learn. Running cables of course is time consuming and the software...well..don't wanna think about this one right now.

You could replace a few words in the above passage and you'd have an amazing similarity with how you treat cars and how you seem to treat women. I think the Yi is really talking about your perceptions here.

So here comes this new woman ("...new cable to run and an entire new piece of software to learn.") where establishing a connection is very "time consuming" and suck up an immense amount of time....Right. Maybe it's your own "engine management software" that is in need of an overhaul and then you won't keep blowing a tyre.

"I'm not sure that pulling back is something I can do, more to the tune of I won't pull back but what's been done has been done."

Well, that says a lot about what's going on inside your head. You don't necessarily have to pull back just shift gears. Then you're able to see the scenery more clearly; you won't run out of fuel so quickly - and what's more you'll be able to give the women a lift IF she feels like it rather than running her over on the nearest hair-pin bend....

Topal

 

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I'm crushed you'd think I'd run her over. I can't even say taking hair-pins at high speeds phase her, she likes it.

It is time indeed to change gears.