Best course of action?

[precision grace]

I asked what is my best course of action in respect of X? a bit of a tricky customer and quite frankly scares me a little bit

Received 42.1.5.6 > 2

Now, I get 42.6 a Lot, and it drives me insane anyway, but particularly here as a response to a question advising a course of action.

42.1 seems to suggest making a grand gesture. (bribe? chocolate? something?)

42.5. to be sincere in dealings with this person.

42.6 that problems will arise from changing my mind constantly about how I want my relationship with this person to be ?

2 - being receptive

Any other thoughts?

 

[mryou1]

Well, 42 with lines 1, 4 and 5 changing turns to 35: Progress, not 2.

The outer trigram goes from Wind - Lake - Fire
The inner trigram goes from Thunder - Thunder - Earth.

Increase > Following > Progress

A situation of Increase, increasing tension, as the storm between you and this customer gathers and grows. The best course of action is described in Following. Follow the other person, and do not try to fight them, this will hopefully cause a change in their temperament, allowing for Progress. Action is necessary here, but only temporarily, for doing this right will cause the problems to end. Your actions will change the outer situation from slightly penetrating or difficult (it could be you're overthinking this situation?), to joyous and satisfied, and finally the end result of this is the problem going away, action ceasing, and new opportunities or challenges to begin (Fire above).

I think you're spot on with 42.5

 

[precision grace]

Sorry, it was 42.1.5.6 > 2 My mistake!

 

[precision grace]

So I asked a follow up question (to try and get away from 42.6) - How do I find out what my heart wants (so I can keep my heart steady)? and got 52.1.2 > 26

Hmm. I think I understand 52.1 - halting before action. But 52.2 is worrying - does it mean it's too late to change anything? I am being swept along? is the Master of this line outside myself or some part of myself?
(unless this is the Master from 38.2, in which case, I am proper worried)

 

[dragona]

Hello, is that about the old flame that walks around your kitchen?
I believe you were advised a change of tactics ... but first, you got to be clear with yourself what kind of an relationship you want to have with him.
But until you do, pause. I recently got 52.1 http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=14917
Being at the foot of a mountain gives an image of a big task ahead of one, so stop and think about it, recuperate your strenght before charge on as one could be tired from getting there in the first place. Cool down, so to speak
When the calves are kept at rest, advance is stopped, but no other harm ensues.Legge
So I don`t think you are being swept away, you are struggling, right?

How to keep your heart steady ... so back to basics, feel the vibrations and go with what is the best for your state - gather your strength and go at your own pace - do not follow his as your heart is not glad of his ways... you cannot change him, only yourself by taking the time and question your motives and the need to influence with your actions someone who is not being receptive (yet.)
Pull back, let him sort himself out as you try to do the right thing for yourself primely, offer friendliness but in an dignified, aloof sort of a way and see what happens.

 

[precision grace]

thanks dragona. this isn't an old flame and how did my kitchen get into it? the only one who walks around my kitchen is me, not even friends. Thank you for the reading, I think the same. This is a new person who I find sometimes just gives off such imposing vibe that I feel frightened around them, but are almost always friendly. I would definitely like to have friendly relationship with this person as they are a colleague and an important one at that. There may be a tiny bit of something else going on, but these days I tend to put that sort of thing down to being single for too long

It's probably sensible to be a bit reserved anyway. After all, one is in England

 

[dragona]

Uhmmm...the man who visited the house you share and have mutual friends and said he was not interesting in the emotional relationship and would take your food?
Can`t find the thread now, sorry, but just seen Mr X thread, that covers it all....sorry about the mess but glad you get something out it..Imposing as in making an impression?
Aloof...that is the word I like lately

The reading of 52.1,2 could be taken as a general advice perhaps for now also...

 

[precision grace]

Uhmmm...the man who visited the house you share and have mutual friends and said he was not interesting in the emotional relationship and would take your food?
Can`t find the thread now, sorry, but just seen Mr X thread, that covers it all....sorry about the mess but glad you get something out it..Imposing as in making an impression?
Aloof...that is the word I like lately

The reading of 52.1,2 could be taken as a general advice perhaps for now also...

That wasn't me chuck, you've got me mixed up with someone else. There hasn't been a man in this house a Very long time.

 

[dragona]

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