Best response 46 uc

[Wilderdreamer]

What is the best response to dishonest controlling superiors?
Answer 46

I'm a caregiver and I have found that when I do interviews with new clients, the expectations they have for me and the status of their disability changes severely from what we discussed once I begin caring for them. I feel swindled and trapped once I commit to a client. They have no self awareness about the Dynamics of the relationship. I feel like my ability to provide for myself is in jeopardy because I live in a small town, and if I drop clients, word could get out that I am unreliable, and if I don't do exactly what they say, even things I never agreed to and clearly stated that I don't do, then I'm a crappy caregiver.

So, 46 is pushing upward. Does this mean I should just do what they say?

 

[liquidity]

The judgment says (WB):

"Pushing Upward has supreme success. One must see the great man. Fear not. Departure toward the south brings good fortune."

Go see someone -- perhaps a lawyer about protecting yourself, or perhaps other trusted caregivers who have dealt with this before and can give you advice.

You need to start setting boundaries, step by step, piece by piece. You need to start communicating better to your clients and to yourself, step by step, piece by piece.

The image says: "Within the earth, wood grows: the image of Pushing Upward. Thus the superior man of devoted character heaps up small things in order to achieve something high and great."

So again, start making changes, even small ones. You don't need to be all drastic and dramatic right this second. Start thinking about how you're going to move the situation in little ways, and start doing those things.