Blood relative discovered - hex 15 UC

[hereiam]

Greetings everyone,

I joined a DNA website recently and discovered a first cousin I had no idea I had. He was given up for adoption in the 80’s. Turns out my uncle thought the baby died. Well, the mother (unknown to me) gave the baby up for adoption unbeknownst to my uncle.

My uncle stated he wants nothing to do with the child. Unfortunately or fortunately, this cousin hasn’t replied to my reply yet. Not sure when/if he will. If he does, I don’t know what to tell him. He just wanted to know who his relatives were. He’s in a whole different state. I’m definitely curious about him. The single photo I’ve seen of him, he most definitely looks like my uncle. But if his own biological father wants nothing to do with him?? Not sure what I should do/say. So I turned to Iching seeking some guidance.

I tossed my own coins.


What’s the best course of action for me to take regarding ___________ ?

I got hexagram 15 unchanging.

I looked through other 15 readings. I take it as saying I should be realistic and modest. Hmmm, ok....



Any more thoughts anyone? Thanks.

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Greetings everyone,

I joined a DNA website recently and discovered a first cousin I had no idea I had. He was given up for adoption in the 80’s. Turns out my uncle thought the baby died. Well, the mother (unknown to me) gave the baby up for adoption unbeknownst to my uncle.

My uncle stated he wants nothing to do with the child. Unfortunately or fortunately, this cousin hasn’t replied to my reply yet. Not sure when/if he will. If he does, I don’t know what to tell him. He just wanted to know who his relatives were. He’s in a whole different state. I’m definitely curious about him. The single photo I’ve seen of him, he most definitely looks like my uncle. But if his own biological father wants nothing to do with him?? Not sure what I should do/say. So I turned to Iching seeking some guidance.

I tossed my own coins.


What’s the best course of action for me to take regarding ___________ ?

I got hexagram 15 unchanging.

I looked through other 15 readings. I take it as saying I should be realistic and modest. Hmmm, ok....



Any more thoughts anyone? Thanks.

Hi! I think you can have a space in your life's cousin. But it will take some time. The hex speaks about the moon, which has to do with emotions and our female part. So, be soft and gentle. You have the power, as the hex says, to change the destiny, and you've already done it by finding the cousin, which wasn't directly in your path without your intervention.

You've been unconsciously searching for him. Now, you can handle and reach him by levelling the distance

 

[hereiam]

Hi! I think you can have a space in your life's cousin. But it will take some time. The hex speaks about the moon, which has to do with emotions and our female part. So, be soft and gentle. You have the power, as the hex says, to change the destiny, and you've already done it by finding the cousin, which wasn't directly in your path without your intervention.

You've been unconsciously searching for him. Now, you can handle and reach him by levelling the distance

That sounds really lovely Clavdia. I never would have gotten half of what you said from the reading. Thanks so much for your input. It makes me hope he does respond eventually.