Boundaries 60.2.4.5 > 51

[Surfergirl]

The question I asked: “please provide an example of what these boundaries should look like on a practical day to day basis.”

Re: a person I dated — we’re moving from dating to friendship. The friendship is valuable enough for me to want to go through the hassle.


I’m stumped. I love that the answer received was boundaries but I’m confused in it’s relating hex 51.
Is this saying,

line 2:
'Not going out of the gate from the courtyard.
Pitfall.'
— don’t ignore him. He is valuable in your life.

Line 4:
Peaceful articulating.
Creating success.
— stop. Get to peace. Assess needs. Outcomes.

Line 5:
Sweet articulating, good fortune.
Going on brings honour.'
— hold firm. Keep to your boundaries. Continue to assert them.


the problem is I was seeking what boundaries I should set in the first place. Mainly because I’m not sure how to make this transition and it’s been a bit of a painful one.
Does anyone know of a better question to ask?

Xoxo

 

[becalm]

the problem is I was seeking what boundaries I should set in the first place. Mainly because I’m not sure how to make this transition and it’s been a bit of a painful one.
Does anyone know of a better question to ask?

Xoxo

I usually ask this question re any relationship I have when I'm not sure how to move forward with them.....How can I progress my relationship with (name)

 

[diamant]

please provide an example of what these boundaries should look like on a practical day to day basis
60.2.4.5 > 51
Don't close yourself at home too much (60.2).
When you are at home, be content, be at peace (60.4).
Limit your sweet intake, and/or your character sweetness, and/or sweet talk (60.5).
When shock comes, keep your cool, keep your wits about you.
Because of resulting 51, I believe he'll do something disturbing and unexpected at some point soon.