Can anyone interpret these i-ching numbers?

[whatsgoingonhere]

Hi. I'm new on here. I would love to get some help interpreting 2 i-ching numbers.
Thank you for any help, even small.

I am waiting to hear back from an employer about a job that I want to get.
I also have someone interested in being serious and committed and getting married.
Finally, I have my ex, who wants to come back and get married.
WOW! THE PROBLEMS I HAVE!

Well, I threw 51 and 54.

How do 51 and 54 apply to me and the issues I listed above. HELP ME IF YOU CAN!

 

[willowfox]

Hex 51 says to expect a surprise soon.

Hex 54 is about a woman who wants to marry but it suggests problems later on with her.

 

[florecilla]

About 54

Some days ago I asked the IC what aspects do I have to change in me in order to find the right match? I also got hex 54. How can you interpret it? Thank you.

 

[whatsgoingonhere]

One more thing i learned........

HERE ARE SOME OF THE MEANINGS FOR 54, THAT I SAW ON SITES ONLINE:

1. the wrong one chosen
2. too many problems or complications in the marriage
3. marrying someone who gives you grief, later on
4. regretting who you married because they're involved with too much crap
5. choosing someone who has another lover in the picture, already
(the other lover may cause grief afterwards or give you trouble or not want to leave)
6. the girl who thinks she's picking the right suitor, but is picking the wrong one
7. the suitor has too many faults, but is hiding them well, to get the girl to marry him
8. the suitor is clever, cunning, etc. and wins over the girl, who's naive
9. choosing a person to marry, that's got too much "dirty laundry" in their life, and
after you marry, you'll have to deal with that dirty laundry every day
10. Marrying someone you thought you could change, but you have to bow down to their
expectations and wishes and do it their way or the highway (the naive maiden
marrying for love and the guy is not a clean choice)
11. Waiting to marry until later on in life, but regardless, getting married
12. Getting married to the person who caused you grief, and giving them a 2nd chance
(but not knowing that you're making a fool of yourself, and should've said NO)
13. Thinking you'll be #1 to the husband, but finding out he's got other things to think about besides you
14. A deceptive, sly, sneaky suitor who proposes to the naive, sweet, clean girl and she says yes
(she marries for love, but he marries for some kind of benefit or gain)
15. A suitor who proposes, but already has or will have, other partners/sex partners, besides the spouse
16. Marrying the wrong person, but not realizing it, until after the wedding or later on in the marriage
17. Learning to marry for the right reasons, and not just for infatuation
18. Doing your homework before getting married (checking out that suitor - make sure they're clean)
19. Having a history of choosing the wrong suitor. Finally waking up and making the right choices.
20. Learning you're worth more than you give yourself credit for, and realizing this by not marrying the wrong person, who wasn't going to treat you well or appreciate you for what you're really worth. Marrying the right person who appreciates you, loves you, worships you, etc. and not the jerk who proposed.

and so on, and so on...........

 

[florecilla]

Well, bearing in mind that i am not to marry anyone right now and all I am asking is for an advice i will take the last one (and some others related to this one). Thank you, what other sites do you visit for meanings?

 

[whatsgoingonhere]

I went on many, many sites regarding the I-Ching.
I must've been looking at these sites for over 2 hours. That's how many I looked at.
Also, see what your other post gets for replies.
(You just posted or recently posted the same kind of question on another area of this forum, besides posting here.)

 

[bamboo]

54 is not just about marriage, tho it could be. It is about being in a disadvantaged position, such as a woman who marries beneath her or is a second wife. doesnt have to be literal.

for a question of what do i need to change, it could well be saying not to put yourself in an inferior light or think of yourself as inferior. 54 is also about growing up and becoming mature, able to make compromises and to adjust to circumstances. some linesin 54 are quite favorable...5 suggests that being in a lesser position might even be preferable, and line 4 concerns holding out for a more suitable oportunity

 

[bamboo]

whatsgoingonhere - the idea is to ask a specific question and then explore the response. sounds like you threw coins impulsively and then asked your question!

So the yi says:
" HOLY COW!! you have some issues ( 51 ),
But how do you expect me to help you when I don't even know which issue you're asking about ?(54) "

 

[whatsgoingonhere]

Reply to bamboo.......

Dear "Bamboo":
I read your reply to my question, where you wrote to me:
"...the idea is to ask a specific question and then explore the response. sounds like you threw coins impulsively and then asked your question!"

Well, it sounds like YOU think you know it all, but you don't, sweetheart. Your reply also sounds like YOU are a smartass.

I have those 3 situations going on, and went and saw someone who professionally does coins and cards for a living, for the past 33 years. When I got to his office, I did NOT tell him the situations going on with my life. He asked me to throw coins and draw Tarot cards. When I threw the coins, he came up with 51 and 54. I did not spend enough time on the coin interpretations (IC) because I was more concerned with the cards and when he tried to tell me the IC interpretations, I told him to just tell me a detailed answer about the cards. So, when I left there, I did NOT get a complete detailed answer about the IC numbers, which was my choice. I came on here, because I thought people were nice and helpful on here and that I could get someone's interpretations of the IC Hexagrams that I threw. Seeing and reading your response, I now know that not everyone on here is nice, and because of YOU, dear Baboon (sorry, Bamboo), I am going to another site. And in the meantime, I DID get the job today, which pays terrific, and I DO have 2 guys going at the same time. Eat your heart out, Baboon. (oopps, sorry, Bamboo)

 

[proserpine]

give it a chance what'sgoingonhere

whatgoingonhere,I'll answer what I think your I Ching answer may be.
But that was very rude to say to Bamboo.She actually is very very nice.
I admit she answered you rather bluntly or cavalierly--but it was not mean and smartassed.
If you didn't like her answer, why not simply say *that*?
Besides which, the fact that you went to a diviner, doesn't rule out the possibility that you weren't concentrating well when you tossed your coins.
It is not odd that we do so once in awhile esp. if we're nervous.
Or, as in your situation, you had 2 matters on your mind too.
I would give this site another chance and give Bamboo another chance even.And why on earth would you assume it matters to Bamboo in particular that you have 2 suitors?I mean-that's great..but...?
I didn't hear her put you down on that one.If you don't want to talk wiht her anyway, there's others here you probably will connect better with.

Anyway.Please, let's forget that for now.

If you're still around, 51 is always something new and different that suddenly pops up.Have you already had sudden change or become anxious?It can be a wonderful new change but still is unsettling and takes some calming techniques to accept..
You received line 2?
So, that refers to a situation in which you feel threatened or ripped off--and the advice given is to leave it alone, to go(figuratuvely or literally) somewhere safe, --later everything will be fine, and nothing really lost at all.

54,refers to as was said, a situation in which you are included but not in charge.Whether a job or a relationship, you have your postion, but cannot control anything.
Rather like being married to someone with an addiction, as Carol Anthony put it,you will be better off not to try and fight the addiction, or compete with the "first wife"(whatever or whoever that is in your life)just do what you can do.
There may be opportunity for advancement later, but definitely not now.

 

[florecilla]

Thank you Bamboo for your words. In this case I did not get any moving line. It sounds as a self-steem and self-confidence issue. I will work on it.

 

[hattah]

my goodness! what sparked that reply? I haven't been here long either but I could see no nastiness or 'smartassy-ness" in Bamboo's comment.

It is actually helpful information. You have to really concentrate on what you ask the Yi and it is something I have to discipline myself to do. When you have a lot going on it is easy to not give your whole attention to what you are most interested in.

I think Clarity is a good website maybe you should give it another go...

 

[bamboo]

Dear "Bamboo":
... and I DO have 2 guys going at the same time. Eat your heart out, Baboon. (oopps, sorry, Bamboo)

Hey, dont make a judgement about all of clarity based on the likes of me!! you might miss out on the opportunity to have some really good fights, this here is just kid stuff

and speaking of kidstuff, my gosh, i am about your two guys at once making me eat my heart out. ahhh, it's good not to be (so ) young anymore!! to me, cuddling up with my bald boyfriend, playing scrabble and going to sleep by 9 is truly the blissful life I'll leave the 51 lifestyle to you

 

[hattah]

Hey, dont make a judgement about all of clarity based on the likes of me!! you might miss out on the opportunity to have some really good fights, this here is just kid stuff

*been reading old threads*

your a dangerous bunch here at clarity

 

[proserpine]

Bamboo said:"it's good not to be (so ) young anymore!! to me, cuddling up with my bald boyfriend, playing scrabble and going to sleep by 9 is truly the blissful life I'll leave the 51 lifestyle to you"

Yeah, really!It is all relative.