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Can i trust this person? 45.5>16

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Line 5 says:

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'Gathering, there is a position - no mistake.
No trust at all.
From the source, ever-flowing constancy - regrets vanish.'

I have read others' interpretations and i get the sense that while one may not have trust (me in this case), it is something that if you continue with/work on, the concerns leading to lack of trust can be ameliorated.

I would like to understand what exactly the i ching refers to when it says "from the source, ever-flowing constancy" because before reading others' interpretations, i thought that could even be referring to having no trust as being the source and causing regrets to vanish i.e. continue not trusting.

Confused which direction to go?

I have known this person a month, they seemed ok at first but let's just say there are things they say/want that rub me the wrong way and i don't know if these are red flags that mean i should run a mile. We are only friends.
 

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"From the source, ever-flowing constancy" means that as you continue to act with the highest integrity than those who doubt you will come to trust you and likewise those whom you do not trust as being fully committed to the group enterprise will become less motivated by their own selfish personal interests and become inspired by your example.
As a response to your question about this one person then I think you are being assured that as you continue to get to know each other you will find each other more trust worthy, or at least you will get to know how far you can trust them.. Meanwhile just make sure YOU are living up to your highest standards.
 

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"From the source, ever-flowing constancy" means that as you continue to act with the highest integrity than those who doubt you will come to trust you and likewise those whom you do not trust as being fully committed to the group enterprise will become less motivated by their own selfish personal interests and become inspired by your example.
As a response to your question about this one person then I think you are being assured that as you continue to get to know each other you will find each other more trust worthy, or at least you will get to know how far you can trust them.. Meanwhile just make sure YOU are living up to your highest standards.

Thank you, this is a great help and what i needed to hear

I recently did not enforce high enough standards with someone and found out they were lying to me.

So with the person concerning this particular reading, i felt nauseous all day and knew it was for the emotional discomfort i was feeling. I finally told him what i truly felt, and made my boundaries clear.
He's responded to me now saying that our original agreement for this favour he was going to do me is not on the table anymore. He is also thinking i am taking it too serious, explaining that his intentions weren't anything to worry about.

I feel like his defensiveness, and maybe even understandable defensiveness (because he could have had completely innocent intentions), demonstrates that maybe he doesn't have the capacity to keep on the same level of friendship while helping me get comfortable at the same time enough to trust him. It's more like either you trust me or you don't. I don't think he's seeing things from my perspective, that I can't just instantly trust him, and that it isn't a personal attack on him, but he seems to see it as a personal attack.
 

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