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If you use every talent you have as best you can, then you will attract the blessings from Heaven. Don’t expect Heaven to carry you though, its gifts come with the condition to use them and also use them free from egoism. The talents for living and loving are the really big ones. But small ones can also achieve a lot.
Hello, do you have another hexagram for this question ?Just bumping this thread. Iwould like to understand more about hex 14uc in relation to my question
Hi Dancingfox,Well
It isn't working. Everything that went wrong between us is repeating itself. Old wounds opening up, I feel terrible. Best just leave it be for now. If anything changes I will update this thread. Hex 14uc really mystifies me.
Exactly what went wrong the other time? or what were the causes that repeated this time?Well
It isn't working. Everything that went wrong between us is repeating itself. Old wounds opening up, I feel terrible. Best just leave it be for now. If anything changes I will update this thread. Hex 14uc really mystifies me.
I agree in letting the negativity go. Why do you speak about an offer? Don't get it. I personally don't see J as a gift, as the hex is unchanging.Hi Clavdia
What I get from this unchanging hex is a also to let go of any negativity I feel towards J or what we had together. The sun brings to light the bad and the good, yes.
What it was that I had to offer J I'm not sure. Though in another reading on the forum someone told me J saw me as a'boon from heaven'. A gift in a difficult time.
Well, we live and we learn...
No no, I meant J saw me as the offering. Not the other way around.I agree in letting the negativity go. Why do you speak about an offer? Don't get it. I personally don't see J as a gift, as the hex is unchanging.
Hope it helps!
Clavdia
No no, I meant J saw me as the offering. Not the other way around.
Hello Dancingfox.....I see a certain dilemma in your situation that might be spoken to by the nuclear hexagram which in this case is hex 43.. deciding/parting which asks us to consider our resolution to confront difficulties and clarify what we can deal with and what must be left behind ...hex 14 it seems to me contains such a broad wealth it really requires huge FOCUS to bring it to realisation ....
So, perhaps it says something like " We have something really substantial here, but we must focus on what is really good and life affirming and cut out the crap ...... can we do this?
The answer to that question for both of you is what leads you forwards...
with painful experience
Ok If I were him I would be nervous too if it was talking about engagement start first with something small then go exponentially up, if there was no engagement I cant really tell why he was scared. the only way to get someone to commit to a relationship is trust, dont go too fast but ensure he is only interesed in you. else it will be a loss of timeHi Topher.
J didn't want to commit to a relationship. After 6 months I stopped seeing him because I was in love and my feelings weren't entirely answered. He admitted he had feelings too, but got nervous because he's afraid to commit. It was a very draining dynamic with him pulling at me and pushing away when I got to close. He never respected my boundaries and I in turn was not very good at keeping my boundaries.
Now he says he misses me, but he wants keep seeing other women. Even in a casual relationships I don't want someone who is involved with other women. Hello boundaries I think this man came into my life to teach me about boundaries . We had something beautiful for a while but it is time for both of us to let go and each go our separate ways.
Oh TopherOk If I were him I would be nervous too if it was talking about engagement start first with something small then go exponentially up, if there was no engagement I cant really tell why he was scared. the only way to get someone to commit to a relationship is trust, dont go too fast but ensure he is only interesed in you. else it will be a loss of time
I am going to be honest I was in a similar situation where I was pushed too fast into a circumstance I didnt feel comfortable(lol I asked her if she wanted a silver ring) and she asked if I was asking to marry her, no it was only a gift, even she is the girl I love and like a lot the question gave me fear, also we had been talking for just 4months. so it seemed too fast and that scared me a bit.
trust me if you arent the ONLY one that he LOVES he is not worth your time. it sounds harsh but it is... if he wants to se eother women he probably wants to have to as a backup plan nope. that is not how it should work
P.S ICHING answers what you ask you want to know either it is bad or good, sometimes it could tell you to not bond with certain people, if you ask sometimes about said person(not only a single cast) so if it has told you that he isnt the right for you at least once it might mean something but if it hasnt(perhaps you havent asked enough) you cant tell... but given his behavior that isnt acceptable for a formal relationship
if I were you I would ask iching is he the love of my live? or something along those lines, or maybe something more objective, is he the right person for me? how it would be our relationship with him?
anyway I think the message behind 14UC could be taking as you as a person. you can give all your talents to him but he has to value you as such as a treasure...
P.S if you had a long term relationship dimiss my post's advice and follow your heart and think about what you feel with your reason
There was no reason to have fear, the only reason is because he doesnt like commitment, he is not worth it unless he changes his mind about seeing other persons..Oh Topher
Perhaps I wasn't clear about what I meant with a casual relationship. What I mean is that we both want to remain single and see each other every once and a while for good company and a a couple of sweet nights together. And with engagement I didn't mean engage to marry. I meant engaging in this casual relationship were we are both free to live our own lives separate from each other. I never asked him to marry me or anything like that. When we were dating before (around 7 months) we were still figuring things out. I had real feelings and he wasn't sure, so we ended. Now, a couple of moths later, neither of us want to commit but we still want to see each other... casually. But as I said before not with him dating other women as well. So it's a standoff. I don't think we can make it work, we want different things, just like before.
There was no reason to have fear, the only reason is because he doesnt like commitment, he is not worth it unless he changes his mind about
Um yes exactly as I was saying...There was no reason to have fear, the only reason is because he doesnt like commitment, he is not worth it unless he changes his mind about seeing other persons..
Hy RemRemHi Dancingfox!
Rem here. Here's my take on your reading:
Your question: Can we make this work?
Your reading: H14
H14
Great Possession
Yes, you can make this work...
1 if you both continue to work it out (Inner Heaven) with greater clarity (Outer Fire)
2 if you begin to let go the cause of negative emotions (ends hatred) and start to be kind and loving to each other more (spreads good)
3 If you both follow the golden rule (yields to heaven and rest on her mandate)
I hope this helps.
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