can you advise soon, please

[dragona]

Hello:bows:
First to say how accurate YI has proven itself to be yet again-yestarday.
I was asking about something and thought to ask about this guy who is coming on very strongly -hex 38.. I was surprised, thought it may be an echo of previous question asking....latter that night, 38 happened.
This man came out of nowhere, saying how much he likes me, and getting all upset to my defences-it is a big surprise, and I don`t really have the will to jump into something just because he is pushing me.It is through the net, and I had bad experiances before, so I asked YI for an advice on how to act in this situation? hex 35.6 into 16

Went through Shared Readings
"On the other hand, perseverance in such over energetic behavior, especially toward persons with whom there is no close connection, will lead to humiliation." (Wilheim) His?
"Be on the alert, it might be nothing – or it might really be the big bounty." (LiSe)
Thinking of showing him this, actually
I want to stay friends, but what can I hope for and what stand do I take?
Thank for swift insight :bows:

 

[bamboo]

35.6 in my experience has meant to take a very strong and purposeful approach, because a specific situation calls for a strong response, the kind of the approach that you would not make a habit of.

In your situation, this could mean being really firm and clear and coming right out with it in your communication. If you want him in your life, you reach out and express your reciprocal interest. If on the other hand, you don't think you want him in your life as he is behaving, you tell him very clearly...and tell him why as well. If you are honest, he may well back off in his pushiness and be more amenable to what you want. the line says that after this forceful approach, you can resume your peaceful ways. Maybe he will cease his forceful approach and use more peaceful, gentle tactics as well.

 

[jend]

To me, 35.6 is the line of leading my example, instead of telling another what to do.

In other words, inspire them to do what you want them to do by being it yourself.

In this instance, if he is coming on too strong, I'd back off for a while from contacting him, then say something like, "I'm the type of the person who likes to give people their space. It's something I value". Or "I need to take my time getting to know someone at first, that's important to me." If he does not respect that, then it's another matter.

 

[dragona]

Hello, it is good to update-reading wise.

Aked about persons real attentions and plans concerning me-63.6 into 37..moving foreward...
Wanted to mention this because yet again Yi got spot on...Carol K. Anthony says for this line that "now that we made a slight progress concerning a person in question, we have to tiptoe arround that person if we don`t want to spoil the efforts" (my book is not in engl.).
It so happened that I was so very nervous and irritated with my own problems, atm and would not answer or talk to anybody for 2 days-so it led to misunderstanding that was cleared up latter on-he was/was not tiptoing light enough and missunderstandings arrised!
If I was to interprete 63.6 in the utmost optimistical way I could, I would say that the gent. in question wants to move foreward with our acquaintance.

Not sure what happens next, but so far it is ok - Yi knows, anyway.

 

[dragona]

Hi again, this has all gone peershaped...
I was not happy with negativities senced from my readings, so I asked
What is the problem here? hex3.1,5 into 2
After an fall out-Is it reccomandable for me to make up with X? 30 unchanged
I read that as yes, give it a chance but also give it a proper structure...
Am I reading it wrong? Tired-I am not used to emotional rollercoasters.
Thank you for your insights.

 

[dragona]

an insight is much needed

Things are getting more intensifying..cannot think clearily....clarity, where are u?
What is X`s role in my life? hex 11 4,5 into 43...
Do I make a clean break? How a person cannot understand that things need time...especialy if there is space involved...?