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United Kingdom
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Hi all,
I wondered if anyone can help me with this reading. I got 31.3 5 >16 in response to the question 'should I worry about my eldest son'. I worry about him as he is very much an introvert & a homebird which is fine but he has no social contacts outside of home & doesn't seem to want any, he is 18 and has been like this since he was about 15, he has left college & works at home alone. I feel if I nudge him towards being social he resents it. I asked the I ching if I had cause to worry as other adults in my extended family often make comments that he's a loner ect. & this leaves me wondering how I can best support him. I asked the i ching again 'will he find friends in time' and got 47.2 3 > 31 I am thinking the first reading is saying all is okay as it end with enthusiam ! & the second I am thinking means accept that his life path may not be conventional in the social sense ?? Any help will be gratefully recieved :bows:
HI Trojan,
Thank you so much for your insights, many are spot on. I think my son has probably felt that I need him at home over the years but this has lessened over time as I have had a partner for over 2 years now. I have made it clear that I want & support him to going to Uni & he has said he plans to go to Uni, but equally I have always made it clear that my sons can stay as long as they need. He is very focused on his career things & has made abit of money - so has the Alan Sugar entrapenuer skills !! He loves animals - we have to dogs & he takes them out daily, I think this is where he gets a sense of connection from. He spends his life on the PC like alot of teens but in his case he does web design & gaming so it's all the time. He suffers insomnia & was aneamic - I took him to the Doctors who said he wasn't depressed ( he was told he had aneamia at this time) & I took him to a counceller as he dropped out of college but he didn't follow it up as he felt it unnecessary - he is very strong willed and is a very logical, rational black & white person ! He never takes up any offers from people to go out, recently an old friend from school got in touch & he never followed it up The councellor said that he was obvioulsy shy but focused & in her experience suggested that problems may occur when he does finally get into a relationship if it were to break down ect. He doesn't really relate to his dad ( we seperated when he was 5 & he sees his dad every week ) as they are totally different characters & his younger brother is also the polar opposite - both are extraverts & always out with his focus is on his friends & social life. I think you are right in saying ignore 'negative comments' from family ect. I have had comments such as 'people who suddenly gun down loads of people for no reason ect are loners' - it's done in jest but it hurts me and worries me, my partner has also said he thinks my son will never leave home & makes the odd jibe about it !! I will ignore this and like you say meditate on the truth of the situation. I have thought about our 'bond' it's close but he doesn't confide or open up to me but thats his nature. People have told me I have been to over-protective of him. This has been down to him being shy & me wanting to sheild him from difficult or uncomfortable feelings. I think I will back off a bit & pray that he finds a connection with people Thank again for taking the time to respond to my post -these insights really help to gain insight & lighten the load !:bows:
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).