choosing between heart and mind, 2.5 to 8

[Freya D]

Dear readers,

my heart and mind are in conflict. Im in love with a very difficult man, I think it is best
to stop but this also seems unnatural as it goes against my feelings.

I asked I Ching:

is there still a chance that X and I can develop a healthy relationship?

2.5 to 8

this seems positive, and I was surprised so I asked another question to be sure

I asked: is X my man? (should we be together?)

I got 26.1 to 18

this seems to suggest that the time hasn't come yet, that we first have to work on what is spoiled?

id really appreciate your opinions, thanks!

 

[long yi]

Without going into a six line method layout and any detail analysis,
26.1 to 18
Sexual relationship and body union are good between the two parties, but there is no core understanding of each other and proper communication in this relationship.

2.5 to 8
Hex 2 is six yin lines and change into Hex 8 with one yang line at 8.5 and the rest are yin lines.
Hex 2 is a six strike hexagram. No one gets along, but no one starts a fight.
Hex 8 with one yang line at line 5 means that the man has many female friends, thus there are more than one love rivals.

The whole picture means that he has no problem having a great sexual relationship with you. At the same time, shopping for a more suitable female is done in parallel, either for fun or real love.

In Hex 8, lower trigram ken earth (you) suppresses upper trigram (kan water, him)
You have the upper hand because the change line is in the upper trigram. For stable relationship, it takes a very long time to achieve.

In Hex 18, lower trigram is sun wood (him) and upper trigram is ken earth (you). The lower trigram suppresses the upper trigram.

He has the upper hand when it comes to sex and also in this situation of being together, there is no long term relationship and marriage.

The above analysis is done without looking at the six line layout of characters or compare the layout relationship to Tarot cards.

 

[Freya D]

thank you Long Yi for your answer,

it seems quite accurate, although I am the one shopping around when were on a break, not him. Perhaps it could mean that he is always looking for fun in drinking and stuff and doesn't want to get seriously commited in caring. I love him a lot, and he loves me, it just doesnt seem to work. he has been hurt a lot and is so scared of giving it seems that he closes off, and I don't trust him anymore and start to push..this is not how it should be..i think he is just not capable of giving at the moment.perhaps my next question should be advice on how to let him go because he is like a magnet for me