Cladestine affair? Hex 36

[perlovachka]

I'm feeling a bit uneasy about my relationship with a man. It seems to me he's hiding something. I dunno, a hunch..

I asked what his intentions are towards me and if hes being honest and faithful. I got Hexagram 36.1.4.5 to 31

31 i nice but 36 is something hidden. So does this show me that he's hiding something in regards what this relationship is really about?

Much thanks in advance!

 

[Trojina]

is that the same man you were asking was in love with you and got hex 14 ? here http://www.onlineclaruty.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=12447

or have you got several lurve interests on the go ?

noone could answer this IMO...not like its for sure anyway. They could give you their impression but would you be any clearer than before, as in the 14 question since you are asking about another persons feelings/actions that can't be verified unless you ask him...or find out in real terms

If you asked about your best way to handle these suspicions you have you may get a better picture of what to do which is what you really need to know.

36 is hardly the most open answer to get since its all about hiding ones true intentions but I'd hesitate to say it meant he was having an affair....yet I couldn't say it meant he was being honest and faithful either


the truth is it isn't an answer that shouts about open honest intentions yet i would be doing him an injustice to make out I knew he was insincere or having affairs since I don't actually know. An answer form i is not enough to incriminate soemone. You don't know and if you don't know how would we know ?


He seems to be the one you need to commune with...or do some background research/investigations on.

I guess in your shoes I'd keep my eyes open for lies and so on, until you know you can be sure he is trustworthy

 

[Trojina]

is that the same man you were asking was in love with you and got hex 14 ? here http://www.onlineclaruty.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=12447

or have you got several lurve interests on the go ?

noone could answer this IMO...not like its for sure anyway. They could give you their impression but would you be any clearer than before, as in the 14 question since you are asking about another persons feelings/actions that can't be verified unless you ask him...or find out in real terms

If you asked about your best way to handle these suspicions you have you may get a better picture of what to do which is what you really need to know.

36 is hardly the most open answer to get since its all about hiding ones true intentions but I'd hesitate to say it meant he was having an affair....yet I couldn't say it meant he was being honest and faithful either


the truth is it isn't an answer that shouts about open honest intentions yet i would be doing him an injustice to make out I knew he was insincere or having affairs since I don't actually know. An answer from Yi is not enough to incriminate someone. You don't know and if you don't know how would we know ?


He seems to be the one you need to commune with...or do some background research/investigations on.

I guess in your shoes I'd keep my eyes open for lies and so on, until you know you can be sure he is trustworthy. Then again if you have that many suspicions is it worth going on with ? You should be able to communicate with him about these worries, if you can't maybe there isn't much there anyway

 

[perlovachka]

Hey! Wanted to update you guys on this thread. Turns out my hunch and the I Ching was right on! He was talking to a girlfriend of mine.She said he tried to make a move on her. They had a fling a few years ago and then he comes back to town and starts talking to her again while with me. An example, one night when he wanted me to come by but I was busy at a family dinner, he calls her asking her to come hang out. Haha! Meanwhile he never mentioned to me that they hung out(if they were "just friends" after all and a mutual one too). When I confronted him, he was flipping out and called the girl a liar and so on saying he thought they were buddies bla bla bla! Rightttt...

Anyways, I like it when my hunches prove right because I am learning to use them! I was actually quite relieved when I found out because the uneasiness was resolved. Also, I think was lookin for a reason to break things off with him but didn't have any reason! And after that fiasco, I did!