Clarification of situation

[irpa1]

Hello,

I hope you can help me once again to understand what I received. I made a couple of questions about my feelings for someone I care about, to try to understand what is happening in me. This is a "thing" I have with someone, we are not in a relationship but we kind of get together sometimes.

I first asked: why I feel sad when I think about him? And I received 34.4 turning to 11.

what type of relationship I want to have with him? 19, unchanging.

what is currently happening between us? 46.1 turning to 11

what is the I Ching advice for me to make the best of this relationship? 44.1.3 turning to 10.

Thank you for your help.
Lil.

 

[meng]

my impressions:

Howdy Lil,

This "thing" appears to be a tenacious and quite powerful force, and you modify or transmute the force through sadness, which gives you a sense of peace or togetherness within yourself. (Your question was: "to try to understand what is happening in me.")

You would like him to show some leadership, and to feel the relationship of itself being guided, or at least be recognized as something significant, hopefully even romantic?

What is currently happening is the relationship is steadily progressing, though still at the beginning. But there is an affinity.

The advise: I think there's a strong urge to press forward, however, even though there is good potential, the potential needs to develop one step at a time, overlooking nothing. If you rush ahead, it may derail things, especially if you want him to assume a more assertive role.

 

[irpa1]

Meng, this was a great help for me. Thank you so much for your reading, it clarified so much what I couldn't see clearly. Thank you.