Co-worker Crush, multiple readings

[djversus]

Hey all! First off wanted to say hello and thank the community and Hilary, this has been an invaluable resource as a beginner with Yi.Backgrund:I have developed feelings for a co-worker. We’ve become friends and occasionally text outside of work. We went out for drinks a few weeks back, and I think both of us had a good time. However it is very hard to tell if she sees me that way, as the circumstances for hanging out did not come about in a very date-like way. But that is a tale as old as time I suppose. I’ve been consulting the oracle for advice on what to do. I have felt the need to be direct about my feelings to know whether we have something here or move on if necessary. That or ask her out on a specific date. I went on vacation for a few weeks and have just now returned to work. So thought it was a good time to revisit and try out the structure of readings laid out in other posts. Any help interpreting is greatly appreciated.1.General Diagnosis of relationship45ucInitial reaction: bit confused by this one. Maybe about gathering myself and working on myself. However there seems to be positive foreboding in the whole “Perseverance Furthers” and “It furthers on to undertake something” parts?
2. What is my position in this relationship?
18.3 > 4Initial reaction: Similar to above in that maybe the Yi is cautioning that I need to work on my own hang ups / address them head on / and learn to move on from past trauma. With the Line text specifically being bout father / son. (Which is relevant to me personally in that I grew up without my father). Or is it more metaphorical?3. What is her position in this relationship?
25.3.4.5.6 > 36Initial reaction: Yikes! No idea what is going on here. Made me question my actual act of casting with coins being flawed, but I’m trying not to get hung up on that. Whatever this is, it sounds bad (?) not sure.4. What should I do related to this relationship?
62.3.4 > 2Initial reaction: Maybe no grand gestures or ambitious moves. Baby steps into building the relationship? I was hoping to confess my feelings and ask her out, but this has got me second guessing that.5. An image of the future situation.63.1 > 39Initial reaction: Potentially successful but then mindfulness for work to maintain, maybe? Thanks for reading!

 

[djversus]

god dammit, all my formatting when away, trying to edit.

 

[djversus]

Hey all! First off wanted to say hello and thank the community and Hilary, this has been an invaluable resource as a beginner with Yi.

Context:I have developed feelings for a co-worker. We’ve become friends and occasionally talk over text outside of work. We went out for drinks a few weeks back, and I think both of us had a good time. However it is very hard to tell if she sees me that way, as the circumstances for hanging out did not come about in a very date-like way. But that is a tale as old as time I suppose.

I’ve been consulting the oracle for advice on what to do. I have felt the need to be direct about my feelings to know whether we have something here or move on if necessary. That or ask her out on a specific date. I went on vacation for a few weeks and have just no returned to work. So thought it was a good time to revisit and try out the structure of readings laid out in other posts. Any help interpreting is greatly appreciated.

1.General Diagnosis of relationship 45uc

Initial reaction: bit confused by this one. Maybe about gathering myself and working on myself. However there seems to be positive foreboding in the whole “Perseverance Furthers” and “It furthers on to undertake something” parts?


2. What is my position in this relationship?
 18.3 > 4

Initial reaction: Similar to above in that maybe the Yi is cautioning that I need to work on my own hang ups / address them head on / and learn to move on from past trauma. With the Line text specifically being bout father / son. (Which is relevant to me personally in that I grew up without my father). Or is it more metaphorical?

3. What is her position in this relationship?
 25.3.4.5.6 > 36

Initial reaction: Yikes! No idea what is going on here. Made me question my actual act of casting with coins being flawed, but I’m trying not to get hung up on that. Whatever this is, it sounds bad (?) not sure.

4. What should I do related to this relationship? 
62.3.4 > 2

Initial reaction: Maybe no grand gestures or ambitious moves. Baby steps into building the relationship? I was hoping to confess my feelings and ask her out, but this has got me second guessing that.

5. An image of the future situation. 63.1 > 39

Initial reaction: Potentially successful but then mindfulness for work to maintain, maybe?

 

[djversus]

sorry the forum software won't let me edit my original post. it just hangs/ : (

 

[diamanda]

Hi djversus,

Glad you managed to post a formatted version, don't worry about the original one.

1.General Diagnosis of relationship 45uc
It's a work relationship (45 very often means 'a company'). Or, a relationship where a lot of people are involved.

2. What is my position in this relationship?
 18.3 > 4
18.3 is an active male line. It has reached the top of the lower trigram, i.e. it has indeed progressed. However, it's still not located in the upper trigram. The result is 4, ignorance, which means that although you have somewhat progressed (in the relationship or within yourself) you still don't fully understand what is going on.

3. What is her position in this relationship?
 25.3.4.5.6 > 36
Someone steals the partner of another and persists. Then someone is left heart-broken and unable to act. The overall result is darkness and wounds. So either she will do this to you, or you will do this to her.

4. What should I do related to this relationship? 
62.3.4 > 2
Either watch your back and say nothing more than a plain hello, and nothing else, because she's dangerous. Or, if you're the dangerous person, she will behave like this to you and avoid you. The hidden line speaks of a charmer who likes to attract many 'friends'.

5. An image of the future situation. 63.1 > 39
You two can probably get it to the stage to have sex, but a relationship is not possible between you.

 

[Trojina]

djversus just to say the formatting/editing issues aren't your fault it's forum bugs that affects newbies.

If you have time fill out this form

https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/forum-issues/

to say how it affects you as more evidence might help to resolve it

 

[djversus]

@TrojinaThanks for the info, will fill out the form.@DiamandaThat was very helpful and insightful thank you for taking the time.