Committed relationship

[cornucopia63]

What are the chances of finding a decent man for a committed relationship this year?

Hex 58 line 3 into hexagram 43

So what are the chances? Don't get it.

What is the obstacle that I have to overcome to have a committed relationship?

Hexagram 17 line 6 into Hexagram 25

Line 6 is both parties should join together with sincerity and faithfulness. I do but the males don't so I move on. Does this shows present obstacle I need to overcome? That I need to find a man who is sincere and faithful. Hexagram 25 I guess is the advise. I associate it with being myself natural and spontaneous.

I had asked this before and nothng came out of the analysis. This is a follow up query hoping to get a more specific result. I've noticed a concern needs to be followed up on a regular basis to get to the bottom of it.

I would appreciate any insights on this picture of my situation. Thank you

 

[casstone]

As for 58.3 I would say the chances are not good for this year.

As for the second reading 17-25 maybe it's simply telling you to hold on to your convictions but I personally don't think there are any obstacles to overcome in these cases, unless the persons involved have some serious problems that inhibit every day normal communication.
These things usually happen without any special effort. In fact I think hexagram 25 is very appropriate. Try to stop looking, perhaps the love you're looking for will find you. Either way, focus on feeling Great with yourself. Enjoy living alone without having to make compromises on whether or not to keep the bedroom window open during night, whether painting that wall green or not or moving that table from here to there.

 

[mirian]

"What are the chances of finding a decent man for a committed relationship this year?
Hex 58 line 3 into hexagram 43"

First you need to change the sort of people you are getting involved with. If you are looking for commitment you seem to have been looking in the wrong place. This a line of misplaced expectations and pleasures that fail to deliver any real satisfaction.

"What is the obstacle that I have to overcome to have a committed relationship?
Hexagram 17 line 6 into Hexagram 25"

There is no need to withdraw completely, it is more a matter of disentangling yourself from people that can't give you what you want, but most importantly keeping the door open to someone who can, being able to recognise the difference and allowing the right person to come in.:bows: