complicated relationship

[a1real]

I have an extremely complicated relationship issue that im trying to navigate. I feel as though i'm walking thru a mine field with no idea where the mines are. I've asked some people for advice but no one has been in a situation like this that I know. I was engaged to my ex and we broke it off 4 months ago. I have my own business and we worked together for 4yrs and were very successful. When we worked together I tryed to show her how to be self sufficent, but you cant make a horse drink. Unfortunatley it started to break down earlier this year which led to the break up. There are two type of people in the world the type who can learn from others mistakes and the type who wont listen and must go out and bump there head. Shes the latter. lol. Anyway after the breakup I prayed that God would remove our obstacles which were standing in our way and I can say 4 months later he did. So now shes starting to see the truth of some of the things I told her and an opportunity has come to her which I had been trying to get her to see for 4 yrs, so now she wants to work together again. She still shows some reservation to come back to the relationship, but im going on faith that this will be removed as well. I asked the question show me a picture of our relationship and where its going and i got a 46 L2, L5 & L6 changing to 53. I think this means slow and steady. I also asked will we get back together and I got a 42 L1, L3, L4 & L6 changing to 31. My last question was where does she want our romantic relationship to go from here and I got 18. What is God trying to get me to understand about this relationship with my ex i got 55 L1, L2, L3, L4 changing to 7. Any help would be REALLY apreciated.

 

[meng]

K, well, my impression here is that life doesn't want to be rushed and decided on so determinedly. And I'd be inclined to imagine your friend and possible business partner would agree. There's a pattern of aggression vs passive, that is: making it happen vs allowing it to happen. The result of making it happen is blind rushing ahead, while the result of letting it happen is lots more, shall we say.. friendly.

 

[a1real]

Thank Meng. I sometimes struggle with patience. Just want to make sure im waiting for the right outcome. Thank you.

 

[heylise]

I read it as a woman, trying to see her side of it. According to your description she is an intelligent woman with a mind of her own. And you a strong rather overpowering man. That can be great together, but there is a big chance that some things which are important to her get no chance to be part of the whole. I think that is the meaning of 18. She comes your way, but for her it is important that you come towards her as well, so you meet halfway and not entirely on your side. Not only now, for mending things, but as a rule.

55 to 7 looks like an army conquering a state, or gathering forces and form that army. A wonderful reading for setting up something powerful... but for a loving relation with tenderness and care? You'd have to choose your soldiers very carefully, and lead them with wisdom.

Looks like your relation does have great potential, but you will have to make an effort. Not only now but always. Make the good things bear fruit, the bad things challenges to improve (42).

 

[a1real]

Thanks Heylise. I appreciate your perspective.

 

[rosada]

A1real,
It's not necessary to insert Ls when you are recording your lines. In fact, it's easier to read if you just use a period.
Thus hexagram "46 L2,L5 & 6 changing to 53" would be written "46.2.5.6>53."
Also, if you put each separate question in a separate paragraph that makes them easier to read.

JM2C,
Rosada