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I recently got in touch with someone from my past. I asked what he was planning to to do about me. (I just left a message and didn't speak with him myself) I got

13.1.3 to 12

I think he's a bit wary. The current situation is at a standstill. It's OK to be friends at "the gate", that is, without venturing out. However, he's perhaps suspicious of me (motives?) and has hidden his hidden his weapons in a thicket and climbed up to get a better look.

This answer tells me that.

1. He understands that I'm trying to have fellowship with him. This is true.
2. He's a little wary of doing it.
3. He is surveying the situation from a "higher" vantage point and trying to determine just what he should do.
4. This is causing the standstill

It sounds kind of negative but should I take some comfort in the fact that this hex isn't that bad and in the judgement which says that it's "worthwhile" to cross the great stream"? He's in the US and I'm in Europe. So to contact me it would definitely be "fellowship with others on the frontier" and "crossing the great stream".

I think he sees my offer as friendly, but he's wary for some reason.
Any other ideas would be appreciated.
 

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"I recently got in touch with someone from my past. I asked what he was planning to to do about me. I got hex 13.1.3 to 12"

Hex 13.1 to re-establish a relationship with him you must be very open and honest, with no hidden motives.

Hex 13.3 he is probably mistrustful of your intentions, probably due to problems that he has had with you in the past. It suggests that you should contact him again soon.

Hex 12 for the time being the situation is at a standstill because of his mistrust of you, so he hides away and declines to make contact with you. So, no action is possible from him for the moment, therefore, he waits to see how the situation unfolds. An answer will come though.

As for time, something could happen in about 3 weeks. 1st week of December, (or lastest 3 months).
 

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Hi Willowfox,

I see that you agree with my interpretation. He isn't say "no way" regarding contacting me but rather, taking a wait and see attitude.

You said,

As for time, something could happen in about 3 weeks. 1st week of December, (or lastest 3 months).

How did you determine that?
Also, why do you think he will eventually contact me at all?
 

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I think that you should try contacting him again, if not by phone, then by email or writing him a letter. Poke the fire so to speak.
Hex 13.3 says for 3 years he does not rise up, 3 weeks is perhaps more realistic here.
As for the time, lets wait and see.
 

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esolo said:
I recently got in touch with someone from my past. I asked what he was planning to to do about me. (I just left a message and didn't speak with him myself) I got

13.1.3 to 12

His agenda with regard to you is fellowship of a fairly superficial variety (on the one hand, he's only interested in you as an acquaintance, nothing deeper; on the other hand, he has mistrust and/or suspicion, either of you in particular, or relationship in general). This superficiality interferes with any real communication, depth or flow in the relationship.
 

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His agenda with regard to you is fellowship of a fairly superficial variety (on the one hand, he's only interested in you as an acquaintance, nothing deeper; on the other hand, he has mistrust and/or suspicion, either of you in particular, or relationship in general).

We don't know each other very well so this is reasonable. His mistrust, given the history, is also reasonable. Pretty amazing answer actually, spot on.
 

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Esolo, I think your own interpretation is excellent and to the point. He seems to be open, not hostile, but cautious - and hence more likely to wait for your initiative than to start anything himself.
 

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:bows: This is soo cool - to have found the same reading as I got and to quite an simillar situation! And when I am thinking of giving up, because it has been over a year now, and this was an answer to the q. "Is there something more that I did not get (from all redings) about this situation?" ! Makes me fel better :blush:

Would be nice to learn the outcome your situation had :)

Btw, I-Ching reccomands me to take this attitude: 54.4,5 into 60
Uh-oh....I just wish it was more fun...if it is a downfall
 
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When will my Love call me again?

so similar, i received 13.3 changing to 12.

we have been speaking on/off and playing on the texts with each other now for quite some time after nearly 2 years of a "cold romantic war".

I asked the ICHING...when Will E call me again?

i was also told by my astrologer that this will be soon, but i am to possibly call him, which i am not going to do, no chance in knowing whether or not he is very busy with work as he is planning on going to Mexico for his business soon. He did tell me that he would call me when he gets there, (November)

this was very interesting reading.
but i dont want to contact him, he already knows how i feel about the situation and if he does call, i just want it to be a light conversation with no talk of love.

he is very very cautious, he did get a letter from me about my feelings, so i know he is just "waiting" to see how i will react to a phone call.

ahhhh
 

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