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Hello Iching community,
I would like to ask you if you could kindly to help me interpret the answer that I received from the Iching. After reading relationship reading advice and giving up on questions such as what could bring us back together and so on, I decided to ask:
What attitude should I have towards mine and X break up?
H. 45.3 > 31
The hexagram and the changing line seem to imply a gathering of a company where one (me I guess) is an outsider. I guess it maybe refers to mine and X relationship as a gathering that is not working with me becoming as an outisder in this gathering.
I have read this interpretation, which suggested I can do nothing about this breakup and that I should not invest any energy into trying to get us back together as it will just be more painful? What I have to do is to keep going with my life. I mean of course this would be the logic in any break up, but my hopes of somehow us getting back together are still at the back of my mind even if i realise this. The quote:
"This gathering is not harmonious- and because it is charged with such intense emotion you are acutely vulnerable here. The more you invest the more painful it gets. This is no longer a purposeful gathering: its become a drama with no positive choice you could make that could lead to acheivement. So rather than ask loaded questions about where this is going, it is more important just to keep going anyway. The story need not end here. You may feel as if you really ought to be acheiving more with this gathering-but hoping for more and making greater efforts is exactly what leads to lamenting.
From I Ching Walking your Path Creating your Future"
Yet some other interpretations suggest this:
"Communication may be suffering and you feel that leaving is the only option. However, Wooing is a message that shows attraction and the desire to achieve union. You may need to work through the difficulties rather than abandon the situation."
That is slightly different and maybe imply that I shouldn't give up on our relationship and go through difficulties, rather then for example leaving it? Or would it also suggest dealing with my for example mental issues in order to achieve union?
PLEASE HELP
I would like to ask you if you could kindly to help me interpret the answer that I received from the Iching. After reading relationship reading advice and giving up on questions such as what could bring us back together and so on, I decided to ask:
What attitude should I have towards mine and X break up?
H. 45.3 > 31
The hexagram and the changing line seem to imply a gathering of a company where one (me I guess) is an outsider. I guess it maybe refers to mine and X relationship as a gathering that is not working with me becoming as an outisder in this gathering.
I have read this interpretation, which suggested I can do nothing about this breakup and that I should not invest any energy into trying to get us back together as it will just be more painful? What I have to do is to keep going with my life. I mean of course this would be the logic in any break up, but my hopes of somehow us getting back together are still at the back of my mind even if i realise this. The quote:
"This gathering is not harmonious- and because it is charged with such intense emotion you are acutely vulnerable here. The more you invest the more painful it gets. This is no longer a purposeful gathering: its become a drama with no positive choice you could make that could lead to acheivement. So rather than ask loaded questions about where this is going, it is more important just to keep going anyway. The story need not end here. You may feel as if you really ought to be acheiving more with this gathering-but hoping for more and making greater efforts is exactly what leads to lamenting.
From I Ching Walking your Path Creating your Future"
Yet some other interpretations suggest this:
"Communication may be suffering and you feel that leaving is the only option. However, Wooing is a message that shows attraction and the desire to achieve union. You may need to work through the difficulties rather than abandon the situation."
That is slightly different and maybe imply that I shouldn't give up on our relationship and go through difficulties, rather then for example leaving it? Or would it also suggest dealing with my for example mental issues in order to achieve union?
PLEASE HELP